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Cain
6th October 2003, 09:45 AM
Another provocative article from Slate's Steve Landsburg: http://slate.msn.com/id/2089142/

A snippet:
If you want to stay married, three of the most ominous words you'll ever hear are "It's a girl." All over the world, boys hold marriages together, and girls break them up.

In the United States, the parents of a girl are nearly 5 percent more likely to divorce than the parents of a boy. The more daughters, the bigger the effect: The parents of three girls are almost 10 percent more likely to divorce than the parents of three boys. In Mexico and Colombia the gap is wider; in Kenya it's wider still. In Vietnam, it's huge: Parents of a girl are 25 percent more likely to divorce than parents of a boy.

Ever since the economists Gordon Dahl (at the University of Rochester) and Enrico Moretti (at UCLA) established these facts a few months ago, they and their colleagues (and not a few of their colleagues' friends and families) have been spinning hypotheses about what's behind the numbers.

I recall Robert Wright's _The Moral Animal_ citing a study by a pair of evolutionary psychologists who recorded how long rich and poor parents breast fed their children by gender. At least, I think it was breast feeding. Anyway, rich moms breast fed their boys longer than their daughters. Among poorer folks it was the exact opposite. Wright tentatively stated that this implies it's genetically advantageous for rich parents to have sons because material resources figure prominently into a female's choice of mate. So a wealthy young man could sire more children. A strategy for the poor might be to pamper a young girl and hope she "marries up."

peptoabysmal
6th October 2003, 03:56 PM
No, except for that someone's daughter you happen to be married to :D

MoeFaux
6th October 2003, 06:45 PM
Well, my stepmom always told me growing up that it would be my fault if she and my father were to get divorced.

peptoabysmal
6th October 2003, 09:52 PM
Originally posted by MoeFaux
Well, my stepmom always told me growing up that it would be my fault if she and my father were to get divorced.

Pack your bags, we're going on a guilt trip. Why do some parents do this kind of head trip? :mad:

Unless, of course, she was right and it was your fault. NOT.

Dilettante
6th October 2003, 11:07 PM
One other possibility not mentioned in the article:

Suppose that at least one parent prefers boys.

At some level they may figure that the other parent has a biological problem, and cannot help them to produce a boy. (Usually, I think this depends more on the father than the mother, but science may not play much of a role in these decisions).

If you really want a son, and you really think that you're partner can't help you, then you just have to find a new partner!

It would be interesting to look at remarriage rates of divorced men. And at how often men contest custody with sons vs. daughters.

By the way, given that it doubles from the US to Vietnam, this little truism might actually go away in a different culture.