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kev
29th April 2008, 06:49 PM
Ok -without question, two very disturbing stories. But, I was involved in a rather interesting discussion today. Which of these two situations is more disturbing?

On the surface, it is hard to top the story about the Austrian man, and what he did to his daughter/children by his daughter. It is horrible beyond mention. But, when you compare the two scenarios, in some ways what went on in the polygamist compound is actually worse. I guess the thing that strikes me, is that both cases have odd similarities. There is no question that the story about the Austrian is so blatantly crazy that it defies explanation. But, in some ways, that makes it less disturbing to me. EVERYONE knows this is bizarre, horrible and crazy.

However, when you consider what happened to the girls in this polygamist sect - it is not that different. Not all prisons have locks. Denying a person ANY knowledge from the time they are born, throughout their entire life, is a perfectly effective way to imprison them forever. Those people are no more free to go, than if they were locked in a basement. Imagine, being cut off from the world, taught that any contact would basically result in your eternal damnation to Hell, and that only through the lifestyle pushed upon you, could you avoid evil. Then, old men, possibly related (not that it really is needed to make it horrible) "marry" and have sex with these teenage girls, denying them any choice as to how to live their life...... Beyond the physical conditions, I just don't see how the situations are overly different.

The thing I find disturbing though, is that there are people who think it is ok for a group, like this sect, to live as they see fit. Basically, putting a religious/belief system with the lifestyle sort of makes it like there is a level of legitimacy to it. EVERYONE knows the Austrian guy was crazy. However, some people allow/condone/tolerate the polygamist sect as if it is simply a matter of personal freedoms on how one chooses to live. In my opinion, the teenage girls in the sect were imprisoned in a way that was in everyway as effective as being locked in a basement. It is just that people know about it, and tolerate it, because it has the label of religious freedom.

The two stories in case anyone is not familiar:

Austrian fathers children with his daughter who he imprisoned in his basement.

http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,353040,00.html

31 of 53 teen girls taken from polygamist sect have been pregnant.

http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,352966,00.html

linusrichard
29th April 2008, 07:51 PM
First - I hate that the media seem to be unanimously using "Polygamists" or "Polygamist Sect" as their keyword for that issue. Okay, they were polygamists, but that's not why they're on the news. They're not on the news because they're polygamists. They're on the news because they're child-rapists.

Anyway - Austrian man is more disturbing. I've tried to figure out how to explain my choice without sounding like I'm defending the Polygamists Child-rapists, but I can't, so I won't.

Zygar
29th April 2008, 08:04 PM
Why do we need to compare and contrast the evils of this world?

slingblade
29th April 2008, 08:17 PM
The tears are the same.

I've no interest in trying to figure out which event is more horrible. I fail to see what purpose it could serve.

And here we go again with "the media are using only one word to describe X, and it gives a false impression!"

Not to a critical thinker who can use some reason in regard to what he reads, it doesn't. If it bugs that much, write the papers and complain.

linusrichard
29th April 2008, 08:22 PM
And here we go again with "the media are using only one word to describe X, and it gives a false impression!"

Not to a critical thinker who can use some reason in regard to what he reads, it doesn't. If it bugs that much, write the papers and complain.
A lie is okay if it's an obvious one and doesn't fool me?

slingblade
29th April 2008, 08:25 PM
Dude, whatever. You have your issue. Feed and water it and keep it warm. I'm done.

Zygar
29th April 2008, 08:38 PM
And here we go again with "the media are using only one word to describe X, and it gives a false impression!"

Not to a critical thinker who can use some reason in regard to what he reads, it doesn't. If it bugs that much, write the papers and complain.

Most of the time I agree with you. For example, to me, an arrest for incest implies rape. So I don't even give that one a second thought.

But in this case I strongly disagree. Polygamy may be illegal, but it's not always about brainwashing and child abuse. Using the word polygamy is a scare tactic. And it's only going to stir up more anger and hatred against the polygamists out there who are not as evil the FLDS are. Not to mention the fact that so many people who still can't comprehend that the entire state of Utah is not a bunch of polygamists.

The Silver Shadow
29th April 2008, 08:54 PM
Josef Stalin once said "a single death is a tragedy, while a million deaths are a statistic"

You don't hear all the stories of the child-rapists from Texas because there are over 400. The Austrian fellow OTOH was one guy and one woman...

slingblade
29th April 2008, 10:03 PM
Most of the time I agree with you. For example, to me, an arrest for incest implies rape. So I don't even give that one a second thought.

But in this case I strongly disagree. Polygamy may be illegal, but it's not always about brainwashing and child abuse. Using the word polygamy is a scare tactic. And it's only going to stir up more anger and hatred against the polygamists out there who are not as evil the FLDS are. Not to mention the fact that so many people who still can't comprehend that the entire state of Utah is not a bunch of polygamists.

Fine. I was due for another tantrum anyway. I'll just go have it, shall I? :p

It makes more sense, this objection, in this case, than it does in the other thread about the father keeping his daughter a sex slave for 24 years.

Concedo.