RSL in hospital

[RSL's better half]

Hello, Everyone.

I just wanted you to know that my hubby will be out of commission for a while. Robert suffered a stroke last night (8/4). Some bleeding showed up in the cat scan, and it's in an inoperable place - dead center in the brain. The good news is that it is draining somewhat into the spinal cord. The stroke has left him paralyzed on the left side - the blood is mostly on the right side of the brain.

Right now we are in a "wait and see" phase. He is in CCU at a local hospital, and I'm told he'll likely be there a week. (Before anyone asks, no - he can't have flowers in the CCU.) He may go on from there to a rehabilitation facility where he may learn how to get the strength back on his left side. That, however, is too far down the road to think about now. There will be another cat scan to see if he is still bleeding or if it has stopped.

I will try to keep you posted on his progress, but news from me may be slow in coming. Please think good thoughts or pray if you are of the mind to. God bless you all.

Susan


Edit: Please read on. As of 8/11, there has been some progress. Robert is doing better.

2nd Edit: Address for well wishing:
Robert Lancaster
c/o StopSylvia.com
3129 S. Hacienda Blvd. #622
Hacienda Heights, CA 91745-6304

[Wolrab]

Sorry to hear that. They can do wonderful things with stroke victims these days. Best wishes.

[logical muse]

Susan,

Please pass on my best wishes to Robert. I hope he has a swift and complete recovery.

[Gravy]

My thoughts are with you both, Susan. Please let us know if there's anything we can do for you beyond thinking good thoughts.

[Mashuna]

My very best wishes to you both.

[hcmom]

*hcmom hugs Susan

[aggle-rithm]

Sorry to hear about your troubles. Why does this sort of thing always seem to hit the wrong people?

The Fates have got some 'splaining to do.

Hoping for a quick recovery.

[NobbyNobbs]

My thoughts are most definitely with both of you. Let me know if there's anything I can do.

[cj.23]

I am so very sorry to hear this.

Prayers with you both, and if there is any way we can help with anything you need I'm sure many, many folks will do their best for you. Robert is much loved, and we wish him a speedy and full recovery.

Now you take very good care of yourself, and send him our best.

love cj x

[Professor Yaffle]

I'm really sorry to hear that and hope he recovers well. Best wishes to you both.

[kittykatkarma]

Very sad news. My thoughts are with you both.

[Lisa Simpson]

Oh, I am so sorry. Both of you will be in my thoughts.

[crackers]

I am very sorry to hear this. At the Mid-Atlanteans meeting this past weekend, we were mentioning him and what an awesome person he is. I will be hoping that he makes a quick recovery!

[shemp]

I hope this turns out well and he has a speedy recovery. Best wishes to both of you.

[jond]

Susan, I'm so sorry to hear this. RSL is a vital voice for reason, and we need him back ASAP. Stay positive!

[The_Fire]

I am so sorry to hear this. Hugs to both of you.

[Ersby]

Sorry to hear that. Here's hoping for the best.

[alfaniner]

That is certainly a scary thing to deal with. My best thoughts for both of you.

[Mercutio]

Thanks for the bad news, Better Half. I look forward to much better news soon.

Meanwhile, be a "bad patient"* on RSL's behalf, and make sure he gets the best possible attention!


*technical term--actively advocating for their care, and not passively accepting mediocre treatment.

[Cleon]

Oh no!

Robert means so much to me and this community - may he make a full and complete recovery.

[Alice Shortcake]

Awful news - I'll be thinking of you both.

[Professor Yaffle]

[As an aside, I am going to be spending the next year or so interviewing stroke patients and their relatives about aspects of their care]

[dustbunny]

All my best for you and hopes for a speedy recovery. I wish you all the best. Robert deserves that for his tireless work. Take Care.

[Senex]

I wish Robert the speediest of recoveries. Both of you are in my thoughts.

Life is unfair.

[HarryKeogh]

Most Valuable Forum Member ever.

He has educated so many people in such a kind, thoughtful manner without ever resorting to cheap tactics or name-calling when dealing with the people he exposes.

I wish him nothing but the best in his recovery.

[Georg]

Best wishes to both of you.

[Mick Houlahan]

Best wishes for a speedy recovery.

[Garrette]

My thoughts to both of you, also. A truly fine man with a wonderful wife. If there is anything you need help with, please ask for it. We don't make empty offers.

[Minarvia]

My best wishes and thoughts go out to you both. Try to keep positive! I hope this is not an inappropriate thing to say but when my dad had his first stroke at 59 he recovered completely. And medical care and knowledge is so much better now.
Plus he has YOU to recover for! Blessings to you both. (((((HUGS))))

[Dragonrock]

I'm so sorry to hear about Robert. Please tell him that he needs to recover because Ed knows what mischief Sylvia will get up to without him keeping an eye on her.

He is an amazing man and if I had a quarter of his drive I'd be unstoppable.

[Darat]

Thanks for letting us know, and best wishes for a speedy and as full-a-recovery as possible.

[Horatius]

My best wishes and thoughts go out to you both. Try to keep positive! I hope this is not an inappropriate thing to say but when my dad had his first stroke at 59 he recovered completely. And medical care and knowledge is so much better now.
Plus he has YOU to recover for! Blessings to you both. (((((HUGS))))



I also hope he gets well.

And I second the above about the quality of treatment these days. Another good friend of mine had a stroke a few years ago, and has recovered about 90% or more of his abilities. I hope RSL does as well, or better!

Please let him know we're thinking about him. And tell yourself that too!

[prewitt81]

He has educated so many people in such a kind, thoughtful manner without ever resorting to cheap tactics or name-calling when dealing with the people he exposes.

Absolutely right. All the best to both of you.

[e-sabbath]

You are absolutely right that there's amazing things that can be done to help stroke victims these days. Stay cool, stay dedicated, and stay confident. Eventually, with a small modicum of luck, it is possible to have a very close to full recovery.

[Myriad]

I'm so sorry to hear this.

Don't hesitate to ask for any sort of help you need.

Respectfully,
Myriad

[Stellafane]

Thank you for taking the time to let us know, under what must be extreme circumstances. I have never contributed before to threads such as this (I never know what to say) but in this case I must submit that the world needs Robert Lancaster. I stand in awe of how he goes about his important business with incredible patience and grace. I hope he continues to display both during what I hope will be a a full and remarkably quick recovery.

[Blue Bubble]

That's awful news.

Here's hoping that he'll benefit from today's wonderful medical care. Keep goin' RSL - we need you.

[Mojo]

Really sorry to hear about this.

Best wishes to you and RSL.

[Kochanski]

:( Please send him my wishes for an excellent recovery. Both he and you will be in my thoughts. I will be hoping that we will have another reason for saying Thank Goodness for the benefits of excellent medical care.

Hugs for you and Robert too :hug5

[wollery]

Hugs and best wishes to RSL, and to his better half.

[Rara]

best wishes. RSL is an inspiration to all of us...doing not just talking.

[Paulhoff]

I’m so sorry to hear this, I hope Robert comes out of this OK, I wish there something that I could say that would help him, my family hopes the best for him.

Paul

:) :) :)

[The Central Scrutinizer]

I wonder if Sylvia saw this coming?

:duck:


Tell the big guy to get well soon! :)

[a.real.girl]

Oh, Susan! I'm sorry to hear this. Thanks for taking the time to let us know. Also, I do hope you lean on us if we can help, as so many have offered. There are some of us in Southern California (me included) who are close enough to maybe help in person, so don't forget to lean on us if there's a need.

Robert's an important voice, and you're both such wonderful folks.

-A

[Francesca R]

My very best wishes . . .

[juryjone]

Words fail me.

As others have said, please tell us of anything we can do, no matter how small or large.

[four elevener]

Such good people. Sorry to hear this has happened. Best wishes to both of you.

[Locknar]

I am so sorry to hear; RSL has way to much left to do (such as spending quality time with his better half, for example)...get well soon!

RSLs better half...hang in there.

As others have said, I wish there was something more I could do......

[Flo]

Very sorry to hear this !

My best wishes for his prompt and complete recovery. Take good care of yourself too, take advantage of all the help you've been offered, you'll need it for yourself and for him.

Florence

[JLam]

Dammit. That's awful. Here's hoping for a speedy recovery.

[Fnord]

My best wishes for you both. I live nearby, so PM me if there's something I can do.

[sinclairmcevoy]

Wishing you both well, Robert is an icon of civility and reason. Hang in there and just do what you can. You know you'll always find support here if you need it.

[Loss Leader]

My best wishes for a speedy recovery.

[Civilized Worm]

I also want to wish RSL a speedy recovery.

[Macoy]

My very best wishes for a speedy recovery.

[grunion]

Wow, this knocked me for a loop. I met Robert at TAM and we spent some time chatting. He is one great guy. I'm so sorry to hear this news, and I hope for a good recovery. Please take the time you need before rushing back into regular life.

Also please take good care of yourself, better half. I know how stressful it can be for the spouse or significant other. Let people help you through this.

[Worm]

For what it's worth - my thoughts are with you both.

The world needs more RSL :)

[learner]

Wishing a speedy recovery. The world needs more like him.

[briandunning]

Yet more good wishes for Robert. I still expect him as a speaker at TAM 7.

[LibraryLady]

When Crackers, BrianSI, and I had dinner Sunday, Robert formed a large part of the conversation, as we discussed his ethical form of journalism. I will certainly be thinking about both of you! Please let us know when he can have cards and letters!

[skepticality]

Such horrible news, thank you for letting us know.

As someone who had a stroke recently, (September 2005), I know how hard the recovery is. I am still not completely back to my old self. But, from what I have learned from talking with him, I am positive he will get through it all and soon we all will have him back to his old self.

Please let him know how many people are pulling for him!

[Wildy]

Get well soon RSL.

[ExMinister]

How very awful, and I wish only the best for both of you and a speedy and full recovery for Robert. You guys seem like family to me by now.

[Freethinker]

Sorry to hear that. Let him know that there are many of us who aren't ready for him to hang up the sharp stick with which he keeps poking the Sylvia Brownes of the world. My thoughts are with both of you.

[CrikeyBobs]

I wish Robert a speedy and complete recovery.

[shadron]

Ah, Robert. Just needed some soaking up rays, huh? But not those rays?

If he needs help while typing only with his right hand, I'm still available as needed. Remind him, will ya? The full-beard platoon has to stick together.

And you take it easy, too, y'hear, Susan? Keep an eye on him and the people around him, but try to keep our stress down if you can.

Tote that barge, lift that bale...

[JoeEllison]

That sucks... best wishes for a really really speedy recovery and/or experimental treatments that lead to super powers!

[Bunk]

RSL epitomizes what this forum and the JREF was intended to do. He's one of my heroes. I'll be thinking of you both.

[bourgeois_rage]

My thoughts are with you and Robert.

[Ixion]

My thoughts are with you both. Here's hoping for a speedy recovery.

[The Bad Astronomer]

You should believe have faith know as a fact that a lot of people care about RSL a lot, and we're thinking about him. Don't hesitate to ask for any assistance you need. He's a hero, and we have his back.

[Hindmost]

A speedy recovery Robert

glenn

[JoeTheJuggler]

Keep us posted, Susan.

I hope he has a speedy and very complete recovery.

He still has a lot of work to do, so we can't have him spending a long time in the hospital!

[Kilgore Trout]

I'm so sorry to hear this. My best wishes and I hope Robert has a very speedy recovery.

[saganite]

Oh, Susan! I'm sorry to hear this. Thanks for taking the time to let us know. Also, I do hope you lean on us if we can help, as so many have offered. There are some of us in Southern California (me included) who are close enough to maybe help in person, so don't forget to lean on us if there's a need.

Robert's an important voice, and you're both such wonderful folks.

-A

This is absolutely true--please don't ever hesitate to ask if there's something we can do to help. I'm in West Los Angeles and work from home so I'm typically available on short notice at any time. My best and sincerest wishes that he recovers quickly and fully.

[Lilith]

RSL epitomizes what this forum and the JREF was intended to do. He's one of my heroes. I'll be thinking of you both.

I couldn't have said it better.

I hope to hear good news soon of RSL's quick recovery due to his excellent care and support. Hang in there, Susan, and lean on us when you need to.

[Drudgewire]

Deepest hopes for a speedy recovery and comfort for him and his loved ones. You're one of the best, RSL.

[CFLarsen]

He'll be back, no worries. Stronger than ever.

Although, let's not pray for him (just look at what happened to the last pope, when all those Catholics began praying!).

Also - let's keep an eye on Sylvia's site, and what her fan(atics) say. Let's not forget what she put on her website after Randi grilled her on LKL...

[Graham2001]

My best wishes for a speedy recovery. The world needs you and what you have inspired.

[LostAngeles]

I hope he recovers soon. Take Mercutio's advice and pass on our love to him, please.

[tkingdoll]

:( give my love to RSL, wishing all the best for his speedy recovery. xxx

[EHocking]

My best wishes to you both and hoping that modern science and health care lives up to expections to help Robert to a speedy recovery.

[Cueshark]

RSL is such a good guy. I'm so sad to hear this news.

When I first emailed RSL a while ago he wrote me a lengthy reply answering all my questions. I've been learning from him ever since.

Get well soon buddy. When you're fighting fit they'll be a whole lot of juicy articles to catch up on!

Best wishes,

Cue.

[NoAstronomer]

Terrible news. Best wishes for you and Robert.

[ConspiRaider]

Sorry to hear about, Susan. Hoping RSL will be doing handsprings again in no time.

I'm right here in SoCal, please PM me if you need anything.

[Kil]

Oh darn.

I think I can speak for all the folks at SFN in wishing Robert a speedy recovery...

[NoisyAstronomer]

My thoughts are with you.

[ObscureReferenceMan]

I was shocked to hear about this. Though I've never met him, Robert is someone I feel like I know. His style of writing as well as his overall demeanor (polite, fair, but tenacious) at the SSB site and here are an inspiration. He is the man!!

My thoughts are with you and him both at this time. I hope he recovers fully. Please keep us updated on his condition. Take care!

[FramerDave]

I'm very sorry to hear this. I'll keep both of you in my thoughts and I hope for a quick recovery.

[BillC]

Robert is an inspiration to us all. With very best wishes for his recovery.

[HghrSymmetry]

Sending wishes for a speedy recovery.

[Tanstaafl]

My best wishes to you both. The world needs Robert! May he have a full recovery, and hopefully soon.

[jj]

Oh no. I'm sorry.

I really have no words to convey how sorry I am to hear this. :(

[cosmic]

From the Hall family to yours-- our thoughts are with you and Robert for the best possible resolution.

[Caz]

My best wishes too. I haven't been here long, but I've learnt so much from Robert, I don't mean about you-know-who, I just mean generally.

[wahrheit]

Susan, I hope Robert recovers as quickly as possible.

I have never met him, yet, but as has been mentioned by someone before, I also feel like I know him.

My very best wishes to both of you. :hug1:

[grayman]

Please let Robert know I am hoping the best for him as well. He is an inspiration and a voice of reason for us all.

Please give this to him for me: :rub:

[strimmer]

I'm so sorry, my thoughts are with you.

I have been able to talk to Robert on several occasions and each time has been an extreme pleasure.

Please keep us posted on his condition.

[jon]

Likewise, very sorry to hear that - and best wishes.

[SphereGuy]

I would like to add my get well soon to the pile. I always admire people who actually stick their neck out and DO something, and the replies in this thread shows that he is certainly not alone.

[chillzero]

Susan,
Thank you so very much of thinking of us at this difficult and probably busy time. Please pass on all our love and best wishes - for both of you, and just update us when you can. Top priority is Robert, and I hope he makes a good recovery, as soon as possible.

Look after yourself as well.
:hug5

[Ziggy66]

Thanks for letting us know Susan. My thoughts are with both of you. Make sure you take care of yourself too, Susan.

[Esperdome]

Sad news, indeed! Best wishes to the both of you.

[Geek Goddess]

Susan, I'll be keeping you both in my heart during the coming weeks.

I know Robert will get better, because he promised me a hug at the next TAM, and he's a man of his word!

[Peter S.]

Best Wished to you both.

[Miss_Kitt]

I'm so sorry to hear this. What rotten luck, and for such a gentleman and a scholar...not just flowery prose in his case, but truly deserved.
Best wishes for a tolerable hospital stay and a full recovery.

Echoing what so many have said, be sure to take care of yourself, too. Being the caregiver is also a very hard and draining job! And thanks so much for giving us an update, despite how busy you are.

My thoughts and best wishes are with you both, Miss Kitt

[Naughtyhippo]

I'm shocked. :(

My best wishes for his speedy recovery. His even-handed approach and dedication to exposing the truth about Sylvia Browne and Kaz Whatsherface had my attention and admiration, as it obviously has for so many other people. Please look after yourself Susan, and thanks for taking the time to inform the forum.

[Empress]

:hug2

So sorry to hear this. I wish I wasn't on the other side of the country and could be of some help. Let Robert know the entire community is pulling for him, and wishing the both of you the very best and him a speedy and full recovery.

[Chupacabras]

My best wishes for a speedy recovery.

[LostAngeles]

RSL epitomizes what this forum and the JREF was intended to do. He's one of my heroes. I'll be thinking of you both.

If anyone is ever looking for what is truth, this is it. RSL has very simply affected people's lives in a positive, thoughtful, compassionate, and respectful way. He's walked a high road while taking on some serious scumbags. At the very least, he's someone who should be emulated.

[GoodGuysEatPie]

Very sorry to hear this. :( Best wishes for a fast recovery.

~Good Guy~

[Tamazon]

My best wishes as well. I wish I had chatted more with Robert at TAM6 but tell him I'll make up for that at TAM7 so I expect to see him there! :D

[Gurdur]

Best regards, hopes and wishes.

[flameowl]

I'll add my best wishes to the queue here. I hope that at some point in the not so distant future Robert will be able to read them himself. It's hard to accept how fragile the bodies of our heroes are.

Best wishes to both of you and if you need any assistance please let us know. Even lurkers like me have been affected by Robert's dedication and drive to see the right thing done and frauds brought to light.

[Psi Baba]

Unbelievable. My thoughts are certainly with you and Robert. We are all very fortunate to have someone like Robert in our midst.

[Mr. Skinny]

Terrible news, Susan. Please keep us updated on his progress if you can find the time.

My sister is a stroke victim and she never recovered from her paralysis, but she was the victim of a very severe stroke that put her in a coma for over 3 months. I hope Robert's condition is nowhere near as severe.

Stroke recovery can be tricky. Sometimes, just when the patient seems they will not improve, they suddenly plateau at a new level, then stay there for a while, then jump to a higher plateau, so don't get discouraged if he doesn't progress as fast as you'd like. You really must be patient.

Please give Robert my regards and best wishes for a full recovery.

[Rasmus]

All the best and a speedy recovery.

[H3LL]

Sad news.

Get better soon.

The world needs you.

.

[deBergerac]

I just heard about it. Very sad news indeed.

I wish for a speedy recovery, it is hard to find words to talk about something this serious "get well soon" seems too flimsy.

Robert is a person that makes a difference and a lot of people love him dearly. I hope he knows how many that thinks about him now and hope for the best.

/deBergerac

[Clairvoyant_Kyle]

Damn that’s horrible…Good luck Robert and better half. My thoughts are with you. Besides those words I am kind of speechless.

-Kyle

[tim]

Susan, Lynn and I send hugs to both of you.
Like Skepticality, I had a bleed in my brain and although the road to recovery can be a tough one, it can be done, I promise you. When things have settled down a bit, if Lynn or I can help by sharing experiences in any way, just let us know. I am aware that it was a really hard time for Lynn, so she will know some of what you're going through. If you want to talk to either of us, send us your number and we'll give you a call.
In the meantime, we're thinking of you and send you both our very best wishes.

[nettiemoore]

My best wishes to you both.

[Travis]

Damn, I just logged in for the first time today and I have to see this.

For the time he is away he will be missed.

Thankfully strokes are a lot more treatable now then even ten years ago. I had a cousin who had a stroke, following head trauma, just a few years ago and they were able to assist in draining it from an inoperable location with some new medication......I'd have to call my mom up to see if she can remember what it was.

[bug_girl]

Oh crap! I am so sorry. I've had a stroke myself, and know how scary it is.
*hugs*

[Loon]

I'm so sorry to hear this. Robert is my hero. Please let me know if there's anything I can do.

[EeneyMinnieMoe]

I feel for you both very, very much.

Best of luck and best of wishes to Robert.

Please let him know how very sorry I am.

[SezMe]

Hang in there, Robert. Recovery will be a day-to-day, ups-and downs kind of thing. But with your tenacity and good cheer, you WILL be back to full power.

[PastBrowneFan]

Will be sending both good thoughts and prayers your and Roberts way.

As has been stated so many times before, don't hesitate to reach out if either of you need anything.

Rob

p.s. For those who believe in a God or Karma, may both turn against anyone like SB or her camp who try to spin this into a vengeance by God thing.

[theMark]

Best wishes from me, too.

Back in February, I stumbled upon this paper, which cites listening to music as an additional, small but easily available way of improving rehabilitation after a stroke:
http://www.brams.umontreal.ca/plab/publications/article/108

[Skeptic Ginger]

So sorry to hear this. Best wishes for a full recovery. We'll miss him here. Please keep in touch.

[Correa Neto]

As everibody else here, sorry to hear that too.

Hope everything runs well!

[specious_reasons]

I wish Robert and you the best in this trying time. I want him to keep up the good work as long as he's able!

[ZeroAltitude]

RSL is required to make a full and speedy recovery as I still have many questions for him and he has been kind and thorough when answering my queries in the past.

[Storm Warning]

Just tossing in my thoughts and good wishes for a complete and speedy recovery. C'mon back soon big fella! If either of you needs anything, you know where we are.

[KayElCee]

I am so sorry. You will both be in my thoughts. Best wishes and hopes for a speedy recovery.

[BenBurch]

I will hope for a full and speedy recovery.

[SeekingTruth]

Adding my thoughts to the rest of the well wishes here for you Robert. As strong as you are, I believe COMPLETELY you will be back to your old self in no time. As one who believes in prayer, you will be in mine...and you as well Susan.

Nancy

[Safe-Keeper]

Sorry to hear this. I view Robert with great respect and highly value his contributions to this forum. I hope he recovers.

[RobRoy]

Best wishes for a speedy recovery.

[Almo]

Sincere condolances. Hope he recovers soon!

[Here_to_learn]

Best wishes to both of you, with the hope that he'll soon be back with you, and then back to his marvelous job with SSB.

With apologies to Martin Gore/Depeche Mode, here's a song SB should hear when RSL is mentioned:

Your own personal watchdog
Someone that checks you up
Someone who cares
Your own personal watchdog
Someone that checks you up
Someone who's there

Feeling unknown
And you're all alone
Nail and bone
By the telephone
Lift up the receiver
He’ll make you a griever

Make one more guess
He’ll put you to test
Things on your chest
You need to confess
He will deliver
You know he’s a big river

Reach out and touch truth
Reach out and touch truth

Your own personal watchdog…

Feeling unknown
And you're all alone
Flesh and bone
By the telephone
Lift up the receiver
He’ll make you a griever

He will deliver
You know he’s a big river

Reach out and touch truth

Your own personal watchdog

Reach out and touch truth

[Powa]

Wow, this really ruined my day. I hope you have better news for us soon, Susan.

[Doubt]

Sad to hear this.

Not much to add. But I hope he is up and back at it again dealing with our least favorite frauds soon.

[Tanja]

:( My best wishes for RSL's speedy recovery - I am looking forward to reading new Kaz updates when he is feeling better!

[Fengirl]

Oh no...I'm so sorry.
Please, please get well soon, Robert. We need you.

[Ysidro]

Hugs to you both. I hope he recovers quickly.

[Mattfn]

This must be a direct result of all those hugs RSL was owed and did not get at TAM. You all know what a positive effect touching and feeling loved can have on one's physical well-being. I hope all you debtors are proud of yourselves now! :mad:

While I will leave Susan the task of filling up Robert's hug quota, I will do what I can. I will start hugging folks, and each time send good wishes towards Robert. Good for them, good for me, and hopefully can put a smile on Robert & Susan's faces.

And I'm not gonna stop until I hear he's well on the road to recovery.........and maybe not even then either! So there!!

Patience and endurance, Robert and Susan. We're all pulling for you. :)

[AgeGap]

Best wishes to a true hero.

[Mobyseven]

Here's hoping for a speedy recovery. Where others talk, RSL gets off his bum and does - and does it well.

Hugs to all on your end, Better Half.

[Hutch]

Can't log on from work, so just saw this now.

Damn

Damndamndamndamndamndamndamndamndamndamn.

Be strong, Susan, it won't be easy for either you or Robert, but two people in love can do quite a lot to get each other through.

We're all here-either to help you on the West Coast or as close as a PM and this place. We'll be here for anything you and him need.

Damn.

[articulett]

Please keep us updated. How did you know to go to the hospital? In any case, it sounds like that is a positive sign. RSL is a JREF gem. It sounds like he is responsive and aware which is also great. Please let him know how much we miss him and care. We are looking forward to hearing about his experiences and recovery.

[Boo]

Have to echo what has been said before; Robert is the best of what the JREF is and who we are as skeptics. I was honored to share a meal with him at TAM5 after his appearance on Anderson Cooper. It is a memory I treasure.

He is a strong man and together you make an unbeatable team.


Let us know if you need anything at all.



:hug3


Boo

[LashL]

Just adding my best wishes for a full and swift recovery. My thoughts are with you both.

[Babbylonian]

RSL is "the man." I'm sending some of my hopes his way.

[kittynh]

Whatever you need, let us know.

You know how much respect he is held here on the forum, you also.

I was talking to a very hot headed young skeptic the other day and I was (as usual) holding Robert up as the example of someone that has made a real change in so many lives, yet done it totally with fairness and dignity. He is my hero and the hero of so many others.

You are also my hero.

Robert may not want my prayers, but he (AND YOU) are getting them anyway.

Focus on Robert but let us know as soon as possible what you need from us.

[LibraryLady]

Echoing Kitty, is there any way we can help with watching the Web site while he's down? He'll be up and back at it as soon as he can, I know, but in the meantime, if we can pitch in, let us know.

[Rat]

This makes me sad. Please keep us up to date with news. I wish him, and you, all the best for the tough times to come.

[Audible Click]

Susan, It was very kind of you to let us know what happened. Our good thoughts and/or prayers are with you.

[annexw]

Best wishes to you and Robert.

[Steven Howard]

He's one of the good guys, and I hope he's better soon.

I'm another local. Don't be shy about letting us know if you need anything.

[ShowerComic]

Terrible news. Here's hoping for a speedy recovery.

[Skeptic Guy]

Susan,

My thoughts are with you and Robert. I've never had the pleasure to meet Robert, but he has my respect and admiration. I can't wait for him to get out of the hospital...soon.

[Patricio Elicer]

Sad news :(. I have handshaken with Robert twice, at TAM5 and TAM6. He's a true gentleman, I really wish him a speedy and complete recovery...

[Tressa]

Hugs to you both and keeping you both in my thoughts.

[Ernie M]

Hi Susan,

Please let Robert know I wish him a full and speedy recovery.

I've talked with him about a skeptical project I am working on. He gave me valuable advice and great insight. Robert is polite, humble, and caring, and I have many more positive words to describe him. I believe he should have many great years to look forward to.

Get well soon, Robert. And hang in there too, Susan.

Ernie M

[Jackalgirl]

What everyone else said. I have nothing but the greatest admiration for Robert and everything that he does -- how he carefully, thoroughly, and regularly keeps his websites updated and takes the time to keep us updated, too. I wish I had his drive and discipline, so I am distressed to hear this news. Please give him (another) hug from me, and hang in there yourself, too!

As kitty says, if there's anything we can do, please don't hesitate to ask. Maybe we can't provide him flowers, but would you like some? A fund drive? A stuffed-animal drive? You say it, it'll happen.

[hugs]

[MattusMaximus]

Susan, I wish you both as speedy and positive a recovery as is possible in this situation. Please let Robert know we're all pulling for him, and also please let us know if there's anything we can do to help either of you.

[Wowbagger]

Robert is the very model of a modern skeptic gentleman. His presence is an asset to this planet. If there is anything in our power to help him recover, you just let us know!

Our best thoughts and hopes are with you. And, more importantly, the best science, we hope.

[Spidey13]

This sucks!

Get well soon, Robert!

[Hamradioguy]

Susan, a hug and my very best wishes to both Robert AND you. A delight to have met you both at past TAMs.

[Elizabeth I]

I'm so sorry to to hear this. All good thoughts to both of you...and here's something to keep in mind: if all that mental power really does work, RSL will be back ASAP!

:hug4

[hellaeon]

My best wishes for a speedy recovery. Stay strong.

[LTC8K6]

Sorry to hear this. Best of luck with the treatment and recovery. Hang in there, folks.

[SkepticScott]

Best wishes Susan. I hope Robert recovers quickly.

[trvlr2]

I wish you both the very best.

[cgallaga]

Susan, my thoughts with you and Robert o course. I suggest it may be helpful for you to reach out to Derek Colunduno (stroke victim), his Skepticality podcast partner Swoopy and his wife Susan, for support in this trying time. I am sure they can provide much info and know more than most what you must be going through.

[Foolmewunz]

Words? I have none, for a change.

Let me add my wishes for a speedy recovery, though. RSL's one class act, and I hope we have him back, soon.

[Orphia Nay]

Aw, crap. I just logged in and see this.

Susan, if you need best wishes, please know I have them in spades for Robert, and for you.

[HistoryGal]

((((HUGS))))

You're both in my thoughts.

I'm local, too, so PM me if you need anything.

HG

[NobbyNobbs]

Please take the following in the humorous spirit with which it is intended:


Perhaps Robert can be cheered up by being assured that Sylvia most certainly did not see this one coming.

[matty.the.damned]

Best wishes to RSL for his speedy recovery.

MtD

[Roadtoad]

Just got in tonight and read about it. Susan, just let Robert know Peggy and I are pulling for him.

I'll be in LA on Thursday. If I can help, let me know. I'll PM you my phone number.

Best to you both.

[SRW]

RSL is a true hero, I hope he gets better soon.

[HawaiiBigSis]

Adding my hopes and wishes for a good recovery to the pile. Rehab won't be easy, but hopefully it will be successful. (And that the bleeding has stopped.)

[Susan Gerbic]

I'm shocked! My stomach just dropped when I was told about Robert. I am so sad.

Susan - take good care of yourself, try to get lots of sleep, make sure you eat. You are Robert's inspiration and he needs you. The next few days are going to be exhausting, really try to rest.

If he never writes another word, he has already done thousands of more work to help bring reason to the world than most everyone I know.

Gosh I am soo sad right now.

One of my main goals for TAM6 was to shake Robert's hand, he was a busy guy and everyone wanted a piece of him. But I managed to have Paulina take a picture of us together (http://picasaweb.google.com/sgerbic/06TAM6/photo#5215291031523603970).

Susan, I just don't know what to say, so I better shut up now.

The other Susan

[blobru]

Very sorry to hear this... :(


Hang in there and best wishes to both.

[yairhol]

I'm so very sad to hear this.
Please keep us updated on his condition.

yairhol

[Apathia]

A speedy recovery to you, Robert.
Internet hugs and good thoughts.

[rjh01]

What everyone else has said.
I gave this thread a tag.

I think this thread has the record for most number of people making at least one post within 24 hours.

[monoman]

Here's hoping for a 100% recovery.

All the best Rob.

[amb]

I Agree with all other posters and I would like to add my best wishes for a speedy 100%recovery.

[dglas]

Robert you are the finest example for us all, possible the finest example of us all.

Your work here is not yet done. Get well. You are needed.

[skullerello]

Mrs. Skull and I want you to know that our thoughts are with you.

[KoihimeNakamura]

I wish you and RSL luck.

[Matty1973]

Really upsetting news.

Wishing you both all the best.

[devnull]

Good luck RSL, kick its a**

[a_unique_person]

RSL has been one of the most impressive sceptics I have seen on this forum. His doggedness, diligence, hard work and attention to detail were a credit to him and scepticism in general. I hope that you both come through this well.

[brettDbass]

I want to add my voice to those wishing RSL a full and speedy recovery. He's a great guy.

I'm sure he can take some extra strength from the hundreds of well-wishers here at JREF adding to everything from the family and the medics.

[enjoytheview]

I'm sorry to hear the news.

My best wishes to you both

[Crundy]

Wishing you a speedy recovery Rob.

[Acleron]

Very poor news.

Please accept my best wishes for yourself and a speedy recovery for Robert.

[TruthSeeker]

Larry and I are so sorry to hear this news. Please know that you are both in our thoughts and that we are wishing Robert a speedy and full recovery.

Susan, please try to take care of yourself too during this. Make sure you get enough sleep and are eating well. You and Robert have so many friends here. Lean on us. Get the emotional and practical support you need.

So many, many hugs,

TS

[TruthBeTold]

Susan! This is so sad! I can hardly believe it!!
My heart and thoughts are with you all!!!

My family knows what you're going through as I was once in Robert's place (except it was the heart) and you and Robert are household names here and this news hits like a brick! You and Robert are such special people that your vibe comes through the computer and people just know that you're good people. Now it's time for our vibes to come your way!

Don't let 'em tell you how he's going to be...you tell them how he's gonna be. ;)
You knew that but that's what people say at a time like this!
They gave me 3 years of quality life 10 years ago.

Donnahttp://i163.photobucket.com/albums/t285/MasterPeacer/MP%20OnTheWeb/changingheart.gif

[KarlG]

Sorry to hear that, best wishes to you both.

[AliasN]

I have not been on this forum long, but I've been very impressed with Robert and his work. He's a great role model for skeptics everywhere.

It's a scary situation, but there are lots of examples of positive outcomes. Stay strong and please take care of yourself.

[Ed Baehr]

Susan,
Robert is one of my heroes and an inspiration to all of us.
Please give him my best.
There is an army of help here on the forum and if you need anything, just post a request and watch the troops rally.
Ed

[arthwollipot]

*hcmom hugs SusanHeck, Arthwollipot hugs Susan And RSL both!

Terrible news. I hope I can still give him that hug at TAM7.

[ottle]

Susan, just got back from a work trip so I didnt have a chance to post yesterday. Please send him our best - you guys are both in our thoughts. I know it's been said already but if there is ANYTHING we can do to help, just say the word.

This sucks.

[Humanists Harbor]

You know, every time I read an article on SSB I think that I really ought to drop Mr. Lancaster a note to tell him how much I respect him and appreciate his work. I don't know why I haven't done that yet. I'm doing it now. RSL, thank you for everything. Get well soon!

Best wishes,
HH

[Aepervius]

I always read what he wrote on SSB with eager. Good wish of recovery to RSL.

[Rasmus]

Will get-well-soon cards reach him if we use the address from stopsylviabrowne.com? (It looks like a private address, but what would a silly European know about this?)

Besides cards, is there anything we can send along to cheer him up?

[Diamond]

I'm sorry to hear this. Bob is one of the good guys and I wish him a full and speedy recovery.

[headscratcher4]

My thoughts are with you both. They are doing great things in rehabiliation these days and I've every confidence that we will see RLS up and about and pounding away at the evil doers in short order. Keep your strength up. Please give RLS my very best wishes for a speedy recovery.

[Ryan O'Dine]

Here's hoping for a speedy recovery, but take all the time you need.

And don't get hooked on that green hospital jello!

[Hellbound]

It couldn't have happened to a better person.

And by that, I mean that I know of no better person than Robert. He's an inspiration to other skeptics, and a lighthouse to many who seek rational shores. His ability to combine rationality with sympathy, and to deliver a harsh verdict with a civil tongue, is something I can only aspire to.

My thoughts are with you, and I hope the recovery is both quick and complete. If there's anything I can do, please let me know. I can't offer much, but if there's anything you need that I can provide, I'll do my best.

Where do we send the get well cards and gifts?

[Hawthorne]

Susan, I'm very saddened by this news. I pray (to a god, to the ether, to whatever) that Robert makes a quick recovery. Robert absolutely is a hero of mine - the kind of person who actually stands up and does something about the wrongs he says, rather than just sitting around talking about it.
Stay strong!

[Furi]

I hope for a speedy recovery, and all works out for you all,
(you're not allowed to send kittens through the post anymore are you? kittens always help)

[Seismosaurus]

Terrible news, best wishes for a speedy recovery

[RSL's better half]

I should've known what was going to happen with this thread, but I had no idea! Thank you, thank you, thank you - Everyone! I can't tell you what this all has done for me this morning!!!! Robert is sleeping through all this, but I'm hoping he will get to hear all this soon.

Two questions keep popping up:
1. Where can we send cards?
Please send all correspondence through SSB for now. Robert has a post office box for both websites. I will pick up the mail and take it with me to the hospital and show them to him, taking them home when I leave. There just is no room in his room for anything but hospital stuff.
2. What can we do?
Rest assured, as soon as I know what is needed I will ask for help. I am not too proud to ask for help when I need it. Robert and I have already experienced the kinds of help available from Forumites, so I know I can lean on you all.

Again, thank you so very much for the out-pouring of love for my wonderful man. Right now, as I said, he's sleeping a lot. The second cat scan has been done, but I have not yet spoken to the neurologist (sp?). The nurse said something about Robert's brain "shifting to the left." He was too busy cleaning Robert up (he had thrown up on himself) to explain any more to me. I'm trying to stay positive, though this did not sound like a positive thing.

Hopefully, Robert will wake up soon and start the long road to recovery. I know, I'm impatient. It's hard to believe that this happened a day and a half ago.

BTW: Robert's brother, Jim, has a theory for how this happened. He says that all the adoration from all of you have given Robert caused his head to swell and that caused the stroke! Yeah - same sense of humor runs through the entire family. :)

Gotta go. Will let you know when there is something to report.

Much love,
Susan

[wahrheit]

Thank you very much for taking the time to post an update, Susan! I'm happy to see some humor in your post, that lightened me up a bit.

[Hawthorne]

I should've known what was going to happen with this thread, but I had no idea! Thank you, thank you, thank you - Everyone! I can't tell you what this all has done for me this morning!!!! Robert is sleeping through all this, but I'm hoping he will get to hear all this soon.

Two questions keep popping up:
1. Where can we send cards?
Please send all correspondence through SSB for now. Robert has a post office box for both websites. I will pick up the mail and take it with me to the hospital and show them to him, taking them home when I leave. There just is no room in his room for anything but hospital stuff.
2. What can we do?
Rest assured, as soon as I know what is needed I will ask for help. I am not too proud to ask for help when I need it. Robert and I have already experienced the kinds of help available from Forumites, so I know I can lean on you all.

Again, thank you so very much for the out-pouring of love for my wonderful man. Right now, as I said, he's sleeping a lot. The second cat scan has been done, but I have not yet spoken to the neurologist (sp?). The nurse said something about Robert's brain "shifting to the left." He was too busy cleaning Robert up (he had thrown up on himself) to explain any more to me. I'm trying to stay positive, though this did not sound like a positive thing.

Hopefully, Robert will wake up soon and start the long road to recovery. I know, I'm impatient. It's hard to believe that this happened a day and a half ago.

BTW: Robert's brother, Jim, has a theory for how this happened. He says that all the adoration from all of you have given Robert caused his head to swell and that caused the stroke! Yeah - same sense of humor runs through the entire family. :)

Gotta go. Will let you know when there is something to report.

Much love,
Susan


I'm tearing up...anyone else tearing up?

Sending a card for sure.

[kittynh]

Susan hang in there!

"Shifting to the left", it scarey but maybe it means he's voting for Obama?

Was he a McCain fan before?

Sorry bad joke while I"m crying....

[kittynh]

Robert Lancaster
c/o StopSylviaBrowne.com
3129 S. Hacienda Blvd. #622
Hacienda Heights, CA 91745-6304

there's an addy!!!

[Zelenius]

I am deeply saddened by this news. I have long been an admirer of Robert's work. Everything he did, he did with his own unique stamp. He helped a good many people by spreading the truth. I am hoping for a speedy recovery from this, the skeptical community is not the same without him. He doesn't seem like the type of person to back down from a challenge. He will be in my thoughts.

[IMST]

I trust RSL is receiving the best science based care available. Hang in there Susan. Robert has been inspirational and I look forward to seeing him back on the skeptical cause soon.

[delphi_ote]

Hang in there, Susan. Get better, Mr. Lancaster! You're both heroes to us.

[RandFan]

Thank you Susan so much for the updates. Robert is so very important to us. He embodies the best virtues of a skeptic, critical thinker and human being.

I'm sad today but I have hope in the goodness of doctors and modern medicine.

Very best of wishes.

[moopet]

Add me to the already-huge crowd of well-wishers :/

[Shrinker]

From me also, best wishes to RSL and family.

[Dunstan]

Best wishes to Robert, and hang in there Susan.

[sophia8]

For newer forumites who don't know much about Robert, here's a good place to start:Adoption, Strangers & Family (http://forums.randi.org/showthread.php?t=57681). It's one of my all-time favourite JREF posts.
And here's Robert and Susan on their wedding day (http://forums.randi.org/showthread.php?t=86198).
Hurry and and get well, Robert!

[Chicken Pot Pie]

Best wishes to both of you, sweetie. Robert is very loved here, and so are you.

[scotth]

MCP and I send our very best.

Susan, don't forget to take care or yourself while you are looking after Robert!

-Scott

[Rasmus]

Two questions keep popping up:
1. Where can we send cards?
Please send all correspondence through SSB for now. Robert has a post office box for both websites. I will pick up the mail and take it with me to the hospital and show them to him, taking them home when I leave. There just is no room in his room for anything but hospital stuff.

If we mailed a wrecking ball, would that help making more room?

2. What can we do?
Rest assured, as soon as I know what is needed I will ask for help. I am not too proud to ask for help when I need it. Robert and I have already experienced the kinds of help available from Forumites, so I know I can lean on you all.

Thank you.

Again, thank you so very much for the out-pouring of love for my wonderful man. Right now, as I said, he's sleeping a lot. The second cat scan has been done, but I have not yet spoken to the neurologist (sp?). The nurse said something about Robert's brain "shifting to the left."

uh ... I tried to look this up but couldn't find anything.

He was too busy cleaning Robert up (he had thrown up on himself) to explain any more to me. I'm trying to stay positive, though this did not sound like a positive thing.

My dad is a doctor, even though not a neurologis (no, I don't know hjow to spell it, either). If it helps, I can ask him when I meet my folks over the weekend?

Hopefully, Robert will wake up soon and start the long road to recovery. I know, I'm impatient. It's hard to believe that this happened a day and a half ago.

BTW: Robert's brother, Jim, has a theory for how this happened. He says that all the adoration from all of you have given Robert caused his head to swell and that caused the stroke! Yeah - same sense of humor runs through the entire family. :)

Gee, we're so sorry. :)

Of course being sorry doesn't mean I'll stop admiring what he does, so maybe I shouldn't be writing that card. I'd just hate to be responsible for a relapse.

Gotta go. Will let you know when there is something to report.

Much love,
Susan

Be strong, and all the best.

[Skeptic Guy]

For newer forumites who don't know much about Robert, here's a good place to start:Adoption, Strangers & Family (http://forums.randi.org/showthread.php?t=57681). It's one of my all-time favourite JREF posts.
And here's Robert and Susan on their wedding day (http://forums.randi.org/showthread.php?t=86198).
Hurry and and get well, Robert!

Crap, if I wasn't tearing up before, I am now. I never saw that post on the adoption before.

And about that "shifting to the left" comment. I'm not a doctor nor do I play one on TV, but that doesn't make sense and I would wait for more information before I worried too much. Just my opinion.

[alfaniner]

If my guess is correct, when he feels better he is going to want to quote and respond to each and every well-wisher on the board, much like he does in his SSB threads.

It won't be necessary.

[Jon.]

Aw man, this just ain't fair! RSL is one of my favourite people on the Internet! I hope he pulls through ok and is back in fine fettle soon!

[Empress]

Thanks for taking time to update, Susan, when you have your hands so full. Please make sure you take care of yourself, not just him, and please do follow through in asking for help. You know the forumites will step up. You two mean the world to an awful lot of people.

:hug2

[coreyh]

Get well soon. The world needs a lot more RSL.

[Empress]

For newer forumites who don't know much about Robert, here's a good place to start:Adoption, Strangers & Family (http://forums.randi.org/showthread.php?t=57681). It's one of my all-time favourite JREF posts.

Oh wow. This is the first extensive post I've read by Robert outside the Sylvia/Kaz world.

If you'll excuse me, I need to wipe my eyes...


Susan, we love you guys. Never forget that.

[Anthem]

A lot of good thoughts from here as well...and a virtual :bouquet:

[TheDon]

Get well soon RSL

[Luciana]

I'm going to send a card, but it will take about two weeks to get there, and by then his recovery is being considered a near miracle, and he'll be posting here about how much he loves us, Susan, and how much more he loves life now. I'm absolutely sure of that.

[elaine]

Oh man, i had no idea about the adoption story. Yet another reason to love this man.

Sending all my best wishes to you all.

[EeneyMinnieMoe]

I'm going to send a card, but it will take about two weeks to get there, and by then his recovery is being considered a near miracle, and he'll be posting here about how much he loves us, Susan, and how much more he loves life now. I'm absolutely sure of that.

Go for it anyway! I'm sending a card even though I live on the other end of the country and, as you said, it will take a long time by which he will most likely be better anyway.

It's always nice to hear from a friend and always nice to get wishes, however belatedly.

[Paulhoff]

Cards are very good.

Paul

:) :) :)

[FSM]

Is there anything better than the look on RSL's face (or the look on his beard, more rather) as he was holding his granddaughter? RSL always seems to effortlessly come across as a great grandfather, a wonderful person and a model skeptic.

All my best for a quick recovery, RSL.

Thanks Susan, for being sweet and keeping us posted when you probably have plenty else to do right now.

Take care.

[borealys]

So, so sorry to hear this! I'm such an admirer of both of yours.

I'm not a neurologist, but I've worked with stroke patients. "Shifting to the left" may mean that there's swelling or bleeding on the right side of the brain that's pushing the tissue to the left. Usually when I've seen it in a chart it's used more as a confirmation of the presence of a bleed than a prognostic indicator, though there are particular patterns of symptoms associated with swelling that may go away as the swelling resolves. Definitely ask the doctors about it!

No real flowers allowed, but I suppose I can offer virtual ones. :rose::rose::rose:

[Ranb]

Hope he gets well soon. His will be hard shoes to fill if he is not on his feet.

Ranb

[cal]

My prayers and good wishes to Robert and his family for speedy and full recovery.

Yes RL, I know you don't believe. ;) But I do, so there! :p