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Disenchanted
1st September 2007, 04:41 AM
An elementary school in Colorado has banned tagged.

hosted.ap.org/dynamic/stories/O/ODD_TAG_BANNED?SITE=PAPIT&SECTION=HOME&TEMPLATE=home.htm

"It causes a lot of conflict on the playground," said Cindy Fesgen, assistant principal of the Discovery Canyon Campus school.

Running games are still allowed as long as students don't chase each other, she said.

This ban and others like it seem asinine to me. So what if it causes conflict, then the children would learn how to handle conflict.

webfusion
1st September 2007, 06:23 AM
Playing tag can be deadly
http://www.haaretz.com/hasen/spages/899414.html




(As an aside --- More than 246,000 students, including more than 16,000 first graders, opened the new school year in Gaza, according to Mohammed Abu Shukair, a top Hamas top education official.)

Lisa Simpson
1st September 2007, 06:49 AM
We don't allow tag at the school where I work. At first, it was only banned on the playground equipment after a student fell off the equipment and broke his arm. Later tag was banned completely when the taggers were tagging the taggees rather forcefully. There's only two of us to watch more than a 100 kids at a time. It may seem silly, but banning tag has cut down on the number of injuries we have to deal with.

Mobyseven
1st September 2007, 07:51 AM
...

:(

That's quite sad - playing tag was one of the best things about primary school, and at the primary school I went to it was probably the least violent activity that was least likely to cause injury.

I do understand what Lisa is saying though, last semester I had to study a negligence case where a child was badly injured playing on play equipment at school, and one of the important factors in the case was whether the teacher supervision was adequate.

Still, I think I would have tried solving the issue by assigning specific areas in which to play tag - e.g. "Tag may be played on the oval only."

Modified
1st September 2007, 07:56 AM
We don't allow tag at the school where I work. At first, it was only banned on the playground equipment after a student fell off the equipment and broke his arm. Later tag was banned completely when the taggers were tagging the taggees rather forcefully. There's only two of us to watch more than a 100 kids at a time. It may seem silly, but banning tag has cut down on the number of injuries we have to deal with.

The change in the culture in the last thirty years is amazing. I went to a grade school where the swings, slides, and monkey bars were set directly into asphalt. No one objected to kids climbing the 15 ft high swing supports, twisting a kid up in a swing and then releasing, playing various tackle games on the asphalt, etc. In our version of dodgeball, one person had the ball and the others were lined up against a brick wall. A shot to the head would have the added effect of slamming your head into that wall. Recess was usually unchaperoned. Some kids got stitches every few weeks, and the teachers and administrators would say "He's a tough kid, he didn't even cry."

I guess my point is, kids today are pussies.:D

Disenchanted
1st September 2007, 09:16 AM
To me it is an example of the "pussification of America."

It is overprotective parents and maybe school officials that are pussies and projecting it on to the kids. The kids would probably play just the same as thirty or even fifteen years ago if they were allowed to.

If kids get hurt, as Lisa Simpson describes, then hopefully they would learn from the experience.

Lisa Simpson
1st September 2007, 09:20 AM
Yeah. And then the parents sue. It's not the "pussification of America". It's lawsuit happy America that causes stuff like this.

Disenchanted
1st September 2007, 09:29 AM
That parents sue over playground injuries runs in conjunction to what I was saying, so that is part of the "pussification of America". And juries agreeing with BS lawsuits like that would be another factor in it.

Miss Anthrope
1st September 2007, 09:48 AM
Yes. It takes a community to utterly ruin a community. Everyone plays their part in it.

skeptifem
1st September 2007, 10:18 AM
when i see this sort of stuff i cant help but think its a bad lesson to teach kids. "oh a few students here and there arent getting along? lets ruin the game for everyone and ban it". ugh. is it so bad for kids to learn to deal with conflict instead of making everyone else jump through hoops to avoid it?

Elizabeth I
1st September 2007, 10:25 AM
That parents sue over playground injuries runs in conjunction to what I was saying, so that is part of the "pussification of America". And juries agreeing with BS lawsuits like that would be another factor in it.

Every time I read a story like this, I think of my childhood: my chin stitched up three times, my head four times, my right hand once; and four broken arms.

All just effects of normal kid running and jumping around. (For example, one of the head-stitches resulted from attempting to hold my breath all the way across the city swimming pool and coming up dazed and confused with my eyes closed and bumping my head on the slide. One of the broken arms came from jumping out of a swing.)

Today, my mother would probably be in jail for life for child abuse. And she had nothing to do with ANY of it.

Lisa Simpson
1st September 2007, 10:28 AM
when i see this sort of stuff i cant help but think its a bad lesson to teach kids. "oh a few students here and there arent getting along? lets ruin the game for everyone and ban it". ugh. is it so bad for kids to learn to deal with conflict instead of making everyone else jump through hoops to avoid it?

That's assuming that tag is the only conflict the children have. It isn't. Not by a long shot.

"She made mean faces at me."

"She said she won't be my friend anymore."

"I counted to 100, but he won't get off the swing."

"We're trying to play soccer here, but those kids keep getting in the middle of our game."

This is what I hear every single day.

fuelair
1st September 2007, 10:37 AM
That's assuming that tag is the only conflict the children have. It isn't. Not by a long shot.

"She made mean faces at me."

"She said she won't be my friend anymore."

"I counted to 100, but he won't get off the swing."

"We're trying to play soccer here, but those kids keep getting in the middle of our game."

This is what I hear every single day.
So, I'm guessing you work at an American High School based on the comments.

baron
1st September 2007, 03:21 PM
I totally support this. I remember my school days, when playing tag was allowed. Oh boy, what a scene. It was carnage. Broken limbs, crushed skulls, eyes hanging down on cheeks, obtruding organs and the whole place awash with blood. And nobody seemed to care! They called it playing. Playing! They didn't give a damn about the kids in those days.

In my opinon this ruling doesn't go far enough. What about the lethal injuries children can suffer whilst running or walking, simply moving from one place to another? Strap them to luggage boards and muzzle them, like Hannibal Lecter, then cocoon them in styrofoam and have teachers wheel them carefully around the yard at break time. Except when it's raining, of course. Or cold.

People need to take action. This devil-may-care attitude has to stop right now. We're talking about the lives of innocent children.

Miss Anthrope
1st September 2007, 04:23 PM
Padded cells and helmets for all students!

(we homeschoolers use the velcro wall method of safety enforcement)

Hokulele
1st September 2007, 04:27 PM
(we homeschoolers use the velcro wall method of safety enforcement)


(The velcro wall method doubles as the playground equipment.)

tkingdoll
1st September 2007, 05:23 PM
Someone recently said to me that one of the knock-on effects from banning monkeybars/playground equipment etc was that kids don't learn to swing, hang and fall properly, which causes worse injury later in life.

At least, I think that's what they said. I might be misremembering. Anyway, it seemed like a valid point. A bit of fearlessness as a child teaches a huge amount about physical limits and boundaries. I wouldn't want to learn those lessons as a more brittle adult.

Dorian Gray
1st September 2007, 11:03 PM
Someone recently said to me that one of the knock-on effects from banning monkeybars/playground equipment etc was that kids don't learn to swing, hang and fall properly, which causes worse injury later in life.

At least, I think that's what they said. I might be misremembering. Anyway, it seemed like a valid point. A bit of fearlessness as a child teaches a huge amount about physical limits and boundaries. I wouldn't want to learn those lessons as a more brittle adult.
I'm not sure that many adults play on the monkeybars. Probably nothing to worry about.

TragicMonkey
2nd September 2007, 12:46 AM
I'm not sure that many adults play on the monkeybars. Probably nothing to worry about.

I was actually just thinking today that I wish they made adult playgrounds. I would totally love to climb on monkeybars, and swingsets are completely awesome. Only the ones for kids are too close to the ground, I can't swing my legs around. I used to get pretty good speed and height going when I was a kid.

Mobyseven
2nd September 2007, 06:30 AM
Wait a minute - there are places that have banned monkeybars?

This is crazy. What happened to 'fun'? If safety is all that matters, might as well sit the kid in front of a tv all day. Sure, the kid might get unfit, but at least he'll be safe.

HawkeyeMD
2nd September 2007, 07:44 AM
This is crazy. What happened to 'fun'? If safety is all that matters, might as well sit the kid in front of a tv all day. Sure, the kid might get unfit, but at least he'll be safe.

It's amazing what they'll do in the name of safety.

Most adults kind of make fun of bike helmets. I guess they're a good idea, although I have also recently been told that there are more deadly injuries now from bikes than ever before (the person who told me this was a pediatric neurologist, so presumably he sees the injuries, but I can't vouch for it). He put it down to increased recklessness (because now they're 'safe' by wearing helmets), but I also think it probably has to do with more kids having fancier, faster bikes. And watching the X-Games.

In any event, it still makes something in my head snap when I go for a walk where I live and see these tiny kids on toddle-bikes--you know, the kind that don't even have PEDALS, usually? They're propelled by the kid's feet on the ground?--and they're wearing helmets. I saw a kid in a stroller in a helmet a few days ago.

Maybe she was on her way to her BMX competition or something.

TragicMonkey
2nd September 2007, 08:08 AM
Every time I see this thread title in the list, I think it's talking about that horrible smelling body spray for young men too stupid to know better. Ugh. I hate that stuff. When I went back to school a few years ago, the classrooms reeked of it because there were a lot of nineteen-year-olds in there. Although some of them stopped when a nice young lady told them she always thought the scent should be named "Desperation".

robinson
2nd September 2007, 08:22 AM
"Tag" Banned In Schools
6th March 2006,The childhood game of tag has been banned by a school in Washington state, as well as some other schools around the country. Link to video, can't find a text version...

http://www.foxnews.com/video2/player05.html?022006/022006_springer_tag&FNL&Tag%20Ban&acc&Only%20on%20FOX&-1

A 3rd grade student made a petition, got 48 signatures from students and submitted it to the principal. The petition stated that perhaps any students playing too rough should be disciplined, rather than banning the game altogether. He should join the JREF. The principal said no.

Also, according to this report, football is allowed to be played, but students are not allowed to run! They may, however, throw the ball.

Wow. Gawd I wanna slap someone so bad. AAAAAAAAAAARRRRRGGGGG!!!!!!


School Bans Tag, Other Chase Games
8th October 2006,
http://www.cnn.com/2006/US/10/18/no.tag.ap/index.html



We have our first nominee for idiot of the year. :rolleyes:

Modified
2nd September 2007, 09:42 AM
I was actually just thinking today that I wish they made adult playgrounds. I would totally love to climb on monkeybars, and swingsets are completely awesome. Only the ones for kids are too close to the ground, I can't swing my legs around. I used to get pretty good speed and height going when I was a kid.

If you try swings as an adult you may be surprised at the motion sickness that results. I was.

TragicMonkey
2nd September 2007, 09:45 AM
If you try swings as an adult you may be surprised at the motion sickness that results. I was.

Sounds like some wild party!

Elizabeth I
2nd September 2007, 11:38 AM
I'm not sure that many adults play on the monkeybars. Probably nothing to worry about.

I was actually just thinking today that I wish they made adult playgrounds. I would totally love to climb on monkeybars, and swingsets are completely awesome. Only the ones for kids are too close to the ground, I can't swing my legs around. I used to get pretty good speed and height going when I was a kid.

We have a park by our house that used to have swings and seesaws and a merry-go-round and a slide and monkey bars. I used to walk my dogs over there and let them run around while I climbed on the monkey bars.

Unfortunately, it's a city park and over the past couple of years the city took out all the cool stuff and put in a plastic play pavilion, which they installed over some kind of rubber stuff that sort of bounces.

joobie
2nd September 2007, 02:18 PM
we used to play 'freeze tag.'

the kid no one liked always got frozen, and left that way for the rest of recess. luckily though, he killed himself in the fourth grade, so we didn't have to deal with having to freeze him anymore.

good thing we were allowed to do whatever we wanted. good clean fun it was.

yeah, there's a little bit of sarcasm and guilt there.

Elizabeth I
2nd September 2007, 03:00 PM
we used to play 'freeze tag.'

the kid no one liked always got frozen, and left that way for the rest of recess. luckily though, he killed himself in the fourth grade, so we didn't have to deal with having to freeze him anymore.

good thing we were allowed to do whatever we wanted. good clean fun it was.

yeah, there's a little bit of sarcasm and guilt there.

And with "tag" banned from the playground, certainly no one will think of another way to tease and torment the "kid nobody likes." God forbid maybe we should just attempt to teach children how to play without physically wounding each other, and how to treat other people with courtesy and consideration.

joobie
2nd September 2007, 03:21 PM
i am not saying this is an either/or situation.

what i am saying is that children, particularly young ones who do not understand the consequences of their actions, need more supervision.

i was using a bit of hyperbole (while an entirely true story) to illustrate a point - which is that (it seems to me particularly) my generation of 25 - 34 year olds is quick to say 'holy crapola nothing bad ever happened to any kid when i was young' when it's exactly the opposite.

then again, the OP probably thinks i am a 'pussy.'

Modified
2nd September 2007, 06:39 PM
i am not saying this is an either/or situation.

what i am saying is that children, particularly young ones who do not understand the consequences of their actions, need more supervision.

i was using a bit of hyperbole (while an entirely true story) to illustrate a point - which is that (it seems to me particularly) my generation of 25 - 34 year olds is quick to say 'holy crapola nothing bad ever happened to any kid when i was young' when it's exactly the opposite.

The trouble is that the occasional kid committing suicide or being injured or killed on playground equipment is a very obvious and shocking sort of harm. The harm done by turning the majority of kids into coddled crybabies is more subtle, and not given the weight it deserves when deciding how much to supervise or whether or not to install monkey bars.

shemp
2nd September 2007, 09:41 PM
The change in the culture in the last thirty years is amazing. I went to a grade school where the swings, slides, and monkey bars were set directly into asphalt. No one objected to kids climbing the 15 ft high swing supports, twisting a kid up in a swing and then releasing, playing various tackle games on the asphalt, etc. In our version of dodgeball, one person had the ball and the others were lined up against a brick wall. A shot to the head would have the added effect of slamming your head into that wall. Recess was usually unchaperoned. Some kids got stitches every few weeks, and the teachers and administrators would say "He's a tough kid, he didn't even cry."

I guess my point is, kids today are pussies.:D

What a bunch of pussies YOUR generation was! When I was a lad, we used to whack each other with lead pipes until all but one were knocked unconscious! The last one standing won! Then some pussy parent complained, just because their little darling got killed, they took away our beloved lead pipes and that was the end of our fun, and as far as I'm concerned, my childhood too! It was never the same again, having to use a baseball bat to beat some little spaz cold! To this day, I like to go down to the tracks and beat some hobo with a lead pipe, just to hear the ring of it against his skull, that glorious sound really brings back my childhood! You youngsters can take your fancy-pants baseball bats and do you-know-what with them! Those were the days, by cracky! Now get off my lawn or else!

TragicMonkey
2nd September 2007, 11:57 PM
What a bunch of pussies YOUR generation was! When I was a lad, we used to whack each other with lead pipes until all but one were knocked unconscious! The last one standing won! Then some pussy parent complained, just because their little darling got killed, they took away our beloved lead pipes and that was the end of our fun, and as far as I'm concerned, my childhood too! It was never the same again, having to use a baseball bat to beat some little spaz cold! To this day, I like to go down to the tracks and beat some hobo with a lead pipe, just to hear the ring of it against his skull, that glorious sound really brings back my childhood! You youngsters can take your fancy-pants baseball bats and do you-know-what with them! Those were the days, by cracky! Now get off my lawn or else!

Back in my day, children were too busy working in the coal mines to play any sort of games at all. A child making two cents a week working nineteen hour shifts as a coal bucket hauler could never afford fancy lead pipes like you spoiled rotten kids. And even if they did find some pipes, there's no way they'd have the strength left to swing them, after an honest days' slaving.

Professor Yaffle
3rd September 2007, 12:19 AM
There are some great playgrounds near me, with sections for older kids that have flying foxes (which you often see adults having a sneaky go on...) and some really scary looking equipment that I would think twice about before trying it! We are lucky that the council knows the value of letting kids learn how to handle risk and not wrapping them up in cotton wool.

a_unique_person
3rd September 2007, 12:20 AM
We don't allow tag at the school where I work. At first, it was only banned on the playground equipment after a student fell off the equipment and broke his arm. Later tag was banned completely when the taggers were tagging the taggees rather forcefully. There's only two of us to watch more than a 100 kids at a time. It may seem silly, but banning tag has cut down on the number of injuries we have to deal with.

I guess that also means no British Bulldog or Hoppo Bumpo?

rjh01
3rd September 2007, 12:23 AM
One issue that has not been mentioned yet is the value of children. In the old days you had many children. Several would get killed for one reason or another, but that would still leave you with several children that grow up as adults. Most would be in the workforce at 15 years or shortly after.

Today we have 1, 2 or 3 children per couple (not many have more). From conception a massive amount of time, money and emotion is put into each one. Children cannot be easily replaced as they used to be. So if one is killed then that is a massive loss.

a_unique_person
3rd September 2007, 12:26 AM
The trouble is that the occasional kid committing suicide or being injured or killed on playground equipment is a very obvious and shocking sort of harm. The harm done by turning the majority of kids into coddled crybabies is more subtle, and not given the weight it deserves when deciding how much to supervise or whether or not to install monkey bars.

When you consider the rampant obesity these days, the health effects are much worse not taking the risks. Flying foxes, though, are just trouble. Children are constantly breaking wrists and arms. There are better ways to get exercise.

Modified
3rd September 2007, 09:23 AM
When you consider the rampant obesity these days, the health effects are much worse not taking the risks.

I've been amazed to find out how many people in my neighborhood have children. Apparently, 90% of them never go outside. Apart from playing outside, they don't seem to do any yard work either. There are people with two or three teenage kids who do their own yard work, walk their dogs, go for walks and bike rides, yet the kids never show their faces.

EGarrett
3rd September 2007, 09:36 AM
Kids don't play the games they play at random. As with everything else, evolution is smarter than we are and programmed us to desire certain "fun" when we are kids.

Learning to hang and swing and fall, as has been pointed out, is a valuable skill. But even more valuable is learning to run away from someone who is trying to grab you. Especially when you are small and weak and in a world full of predators (animal, sexual, murderous etc.) Tag teaches kids this.

If you want to make sure the kids aren't hurting each other, fine. But you have to let the kids, chase, climb, run and swing around...it's key to their development. Tag stays.

geni
3rd September 2007, 09:56 AM
I'm not sure that many adults play on the monkeybars. Probably nothing to worry about.

Was there a memo I missed?

baron
3rd September 2007, 01:46 PM
Look on the bright side; in 10 years' time kids will be too fat to move faster than a waddle. Forget monkey bars, they'll need rails on the cubicle wall to take a crap.

Miss Anthrope
3rd September 2007, 02:34 PM
I've been amazed to find out how many people in my neighborhood have children. Apparently, 90% of them never go outside. Apart from playing outside, they don't seem to do any yard work either. There are people with two or three teenage kids who do their own yard work, walk their dogs, go for walks and bike rides, yet the kids never show their faces.

Yeah, I actually had a neighbor imply I was a bad parent because my kids play in the back yard almost all day. On another thread I posted a recent account of my pediatrician being happy my little boy has bruises all over the place, saying that the "healthy norm" had become a rare find in her practice!

Yeah, we're awful. Send the kids outside to play, walk to the Dairy Freeze (a mile round trip) if they want an ice cream cone, kids tanned and bruised from antics, an "outing" is a walk/bike ride/fishing trip/walk to park, no broadcast TV, limited supervised computer time. The worst.

geni
3rd September 2007, 02:47 PM
limited supervised computer time.

So not actualty fit to funtion in the 21st century?

EGarrett
3rd September 2007, 03:04 PM
Yeah, I actually had a neighbor imply I was a bad parent because my kids play in the back yard almost all day. On another thread I posted a recent account of my pediatrician being happy my little boy has bruises all over the place, saying that the "healthy norm" had become a rare find in her practice!

Yeah, we're awful. Send the kids outside to play, walk to the Dairy Freeze (a mile round trip) if they want an ice cream cone, kids tanned and bruised from antics, an "outing" is a walk/bike ride/fishing trip/walk to park, no broadcast TV, limited supervised computer time. The worst.A lot of people who don't do much phyiscal activity slowly develop the idea that people are made of glass, and the slightest bump will kill them. Most kids actually do have a brain and some natural survival instincts of their own, so it's not like they're going to purposefuly stab themselves with broken glass the moment you turn your back.

TragicMonkey
3rd September 2007, 04:10 PM
Most kids actually do have a brain and some natural survival instincts of their own, so it's not like they're going to purposefuly stab themselves with broken glass the moment you turn your back.

Of course not.

They stab the other children with broken glass the moment you turn your back. Their survival instincts tell them that a) it's going to hurt, so do it to someone else, and b) don't let mom see you do it, or else it will wind up hurting.

Loss Leader
3rd September 2007, 04:11 PM
I hated tag.


Ask me why. I dare you.

Miss Anthrope
3rd September 2007, 04:22 PM
So not actualty fit to funtion in the 21st century?

Jeesh Geni! Oh noes, I'm raising Luddites!

My daughter: She's not limited if she's using office, researching school work, learning Photoshop, or animating her own cartoons and games in Flash (she's ten, btw). She IS limited and supervised when she's playing WoW or otherwise surfing. She has better than average computer skills. Having a myspace page or playing games all day does not actually prepare one for the workforce.

By also being incredibly active and not allowed to be a couch potato or other form of human vegetable, she will be fit to live a lot longer into the 21st century than most of her peers.

As for the little guy I mentioned, why, yes, I think 20 minutes on toddler games per day is plenty for a three year old. He can use a mouse, navigate a child's site and understand functions. Should that time not be limited and supervised?

Mobyseven
3rd September 2007, 06:14 PM
Miss Anthrope, you sound like my parents were (which, btw, is a good thing) - of course, that was in the days of Amstrad and DOS. Not long ago, mind you!

See, this is what I don't understand - when I was in primary school, I walked everywhere that was close enough...friend's houses, the shops, etc. Even in secondary school in a new house I played outside with the other kids on the street - keep in mind we're talking very late 90s and early millenium here, not the 'good ole days'. And yet, even though I know there are more kids living on that street now than there were when I was that age, they're sight-unseen most of the time.

I just don't get it...when did outside stop being fun?

LashL
3rd September 2007, 06:51 PM
I hated tag.


Ask me why. I dare you.

I dare. Why did you hate tag?

ETA: And did that have any influence upon why you became a "tagger" later in life? :D

Loss Leader
3rd September 2007, 07:27 PM
I dare. Why did you hate tag?


Well, I had a heart condition when I was a kid (and I still do). Running tired me out very quickly. As such, not only could I not run for long but, since my legs were underdeveloped from not getting enough exercise, I couldn't even run well for the short time I had. In any game of tag, I was always caught early and, as "it," I was never able to catch anyone.

Doesn't it just break your heart?


ETA: And did that have any influence upon why you became a "tagger" later in life? :D


Yes. Yes, it did.

LashL
3rd September 2007, 07:42 PM
Well, I had a heart condition when I was a kid (and I still do). Running tired me out very quickly. As such, not only could I not run for long but, since my legs were underdeveloped from not getting enough exercise, I couldn't even run well for the short time I had. In any game of tag, I was always caught early and, as "it," I was never able to catch anyone.

Doesn't it just break your heart?

At my school, there was a kid in a similar situation who couldn't run very well but when he got tagged, I did a pretty convincing job of 'inadvertently' getting tagged by him so that (a) he was not humiliated; (b) he didn't feel as though he couldn't catch anyone; and (c) the game continued. I would then tag one of the idiots who were laughing at the kid who couldn't run very well, and I often knocked said idiot down in my overzealous 'tagging', just to make a point. Funny, I never once got in trouble for it, either. :D.

Loss Leader
3rd September 2007, 07:52 PM
At my school, there was a kid in a similar situation who couldn't run very well but when he got tagged, I did a pretty convincing job of 'inadvertently' getting tagged by him so that (a) he was not humiliated; (b) he didn't feel as though he couldn't catch anyone; and (c) the game continued.


Proving conclusively that Canadians are pathological in their niceness.

shemp
3rd September 2007, 09:30 PM
Back in my day, children were too busy working in the coal mines to play any sort of games at all. A child making two cents a week working nineteen hour shifts as a coal bucket hauler could never afford fancy lead pipes like you spoiled rotten kids. And even if they did find some pipes, there's no way they'd have the strength left to swing them, after an honest days' slaving.

Oh, you fancy lot with your jobs, you make me PUKE!!! We could only wish we had jobs, so we'd have some money to cough up when the older kids beat and robbed us! If we had a penny or two for them, they'd only break our skulls; but if we didn't there was hell to pay! And COAL! You had COAL!? If we wanted to be warm, we had to take turns throwing each other on the fire! Believe you me, when it was your turn to be thrown on the fire, you better hope it was a warm day! You can take your fancy coal and jobs and shove them!

Modified
3rd September 2007, 09:48 PM
A lot of people who don't do much phyiscal activity slowly develop the idea that people are made of glass, and the slightest bump will kill them.

One of my friends growing had some sort of condition that made his bones weak, and he probably spent 1/4 of his young life with a cast over a broken bone, usually one arm or the other (the condition was later corrected, I don't know the details). Despite that, he spent all his free time outside with the rest of us, doing things that would, without a doubt, eventually lead to the next broken bone. Keeping him inside to protect him is not something most parents in those days would have seriously considered.

Professor Yaffle
4th September 2007, 12:01 AM
A recent poll in the UK found that:

just under half the adults questioned (43 per cent) thought that 14 was the earliest age at which children should be allowed to go out unsupervised. The adults, however, had almost all been left to their own devices when they were aged 10 or under.

Evidence presented to the inquiry from the Home Office and Department for Education and Skills backed up the findings. Two thirds (67 per cent) of eight to ten-year-olds have never been to a shop or the park by themselves, along with a quarter (24 per cent) of 11 to 15-year-olds. A further third of eight to ten-year-olds have never played outside without an adult being present, the departments said.


http://women.timesonline.co.uk/tol/life_and_style/women/families/article1884426.ece

But strangely, that chat outside the nursery that my son goes to was all about how ridiculous this was and that kids shouldn't be wrapped in cotton wool and should be allowed to explore etc. Is the tide turning, or is my son's nursery unrepresentative for some reason?

geni
4th September 2007, 08:13 AM
Jeesh Geni! Oh noes, I'm raising Luddites!

My daughter: She's not limited if she's using office, researching school work, learning Photoshop, or animating her own cartoons and games in Flash (she's ten, btw). She IS limited and supervised when she's playing WoW or otherwise surfing. She has better than average computer skills. Having a myspace page or playing games all day does not actually prepare one for the workforce.

But does she have a natural fear of .ru?

EGarrett
4th September 2007, 09:07 AM
Of course not.

They stab the other children with broken glass the moment you turn your back. Their survival instincts tell them that a) it's going to hurt, so do it to someone else, and b) don't let mom see you do it, or else it will wind up hurting.I played unsupervised with my friends all the time, and the worst that happened (even with a trampoline and us trying to emulate wrestling moves) was someone getting hit in the head with a large frisbee, which I don't think gave them more then a bruise.

Not that we should've been emulating wrestling moves either, and there was a close call or two, but that took a combination of bad factors. Kids not purposefully doing dangerous stuff they saw on TV on a raised metal platform wouldn't be at risk.

a_unique_person
5th September 2007, 05:47 PM
Of course not.

They stab the other children with broken glass the moment you turn your back. Their survival instincts tell them that a) it's going to hurt, so do it to someone else, and b) don't let mom see you do it, or else it will wind up hurting.

You've played British Bulldog too?

quixotecoyote
5th September 2007, 09:33 PM
You've played British Bulldog too?

My crazy violent boy scout troop did that. I eventually had to leave after the cop scoutmasters sons started turning people out of their tents at night and chasing them into the woods............