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Penultimate Amazing
Join Date: Jun 2005
Location: way way north of Diddy Wah Diddy
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I'm pretty well done arguing the point and will probably let Marplots and Checkmite finish the job if they can (they seem to be more economical anyway), but would add a couple of points. The first is that the arguments of the antinatalists are continually thwarted by language. Perhaps that's just the fault of language, but I think it's also a basic fault in the thinking. You cannot ask consent of the nonexistent, utopia really is nowhere, and to demand that life be something it is not and cannot be is just an intellectual tantrum. It's one thing to take the soft position and say that if life does not accord with some set of standards one will opt out. One can disagree with the standards but not with the decision. It's entirely different to say that it's that or nothing. That if life does not adhere to the invented standards it ought to be eliminated and forbidden to all.
Antinatalists try to sell their ideas as moral, but the upshot is really just a fancy way of saying "I can't deal with the world so I wish I could kill it." The antinatalist position has an unpleasantly familiar odor of theism. It is not only arrogant in its assumption of right, but ready and willing to allow of no error. Of course non-breeders and local-level antinatalists are just opting out for themselves and those of like mind, but as far as I can see, at least, a true antinatalist, if presented with a switch and told "this will snuff humanity like a candle" would confidently flip it in the certainty of truth, just as many theists would push a button labeled "kill all the heretics." I find that a frightening degree of self-righteousness. |
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New Blood
Join Date: Dec 2012
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The fact that you have to work for a living ALONE is sufficient for me to not want to play the game. Its fairly obvious to me that my offspring would hate doing that as well. Ergo, I would rather not bring him to a game where he is guaranteed to lose anyways and also suffering in the process. Rejecting suffering because its baseless, relative and subjective is really unfathomable to me - life is by its very nature deprivation (a negative) and suffering, why would you want someone to come into a negative state in the first place is beyond me.
But I guess everyone would forgive my personal antinatalism because as I mentioned to Bruno, I personally wouldn't force it on anyone else. |
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New Blood
Join Date: Dec 2012
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Again, that's how I see it. I am personally against forcing antinatalism on those who love life. However, I would personally not want to bring anyone here and I think my set of reasons is rational. |
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Philosopher
Join Date: Feb 2006
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I should have mentioned my bias.
One of the greatest joys in my life, matched by no other, was raising two excellent children. This was a source of great pleasure to me and I would gladly have suffered mightily to experience such a wonderful thing. I highly recommend it. |
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New Blood
Join Date: Dec 2012
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That's fine guys. I have nothing against your happiness or the happiness of other people so I am not forcing my view on anyone else.
Merry Christmas everyone! |
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Penultimate Amazing
Join Date: Jun 2005
Location: way way north of Diddy Wah Diddy
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Yes it is a non sequitur. Until there is a person in existence there is no "he" you can refer to. You have fallen into the existential rabbit hole again.
Anyway, I'm glad you have nothing against others' happiness and do not feel inclined to force your gloomy view on others. Like a few others here I have a definite bias in the other direction. But I do wonder, as a thought exercise, and an attempt to pin down whether you're a real antinatalist or just a strongly biased non breeder: if by magic a big red button appeared before you labeled "push to obliterate mankind" would you push it? |
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Join Date: Oct 2009
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s4zando, you're welcome and thank you for taking the time to ask me questions about anti-natalism. I think it's cool that anti-natalism fascinates you.
For an easy-to-read, entertaining, and thought-provoking explanation on anti-natalism, I would highly recommend this link: http://uriupina.com/philosophy-psychology/antinatalism PM if you ever want more anti-natalism links. Good day as well. everyone, this will be my last time posting in this thread. I do apologize for posting so late so often and I again thank dimasok for taking over. Thank you for allowing me to discuss anti-natalist viewpoints and for taking the time to have discussions with me. Again, if anyone would like links on anti-natalism, feel free to PM me at anytime. Good day, happy holidays, good life, etc. I respectfully disagree with what you've written in the parenthesis. As I said before, I do not believe that we can "eliminate" the past. What happened, happened. Ending the human race in the future would not erase what happened in the past. And I SPECIFICALLY said that I DO accept the human condition. dimasok DOESN'T accept the human condition. Obviously two different opinions from people who identify as anti-natalist. Like I've said before, my acceptance of the human condition is NOT the point. I ACCEPT it but I believe it is UNNECESSARY. If you are going to make assumptions about how people think and feel, then there is no point in trying to have a discussion with another person. That is why I ask that you frame assertions as questions. We might be having a misunderstanding when it comes to this phrase so we may have to agree to disagree and step over it.
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I do not want to come across as insulting but PLEASE try to understand the points I'm trying ot make. It appears you are interpreting my words through your personal filter of what "humanity" and "anti-natalism" mean to you and if you are doing so, then it's impossible to even partially understand where I'm coming from.
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Like I've said before, I don't undetrstand how advocating anti-natalism and/or not breeding is "worse" than breeding. Pardon my language, but I don't believe we can mess **** up worse than we already do.
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And isn't it coicidence that most people who say that they are glad they are here are NOT receiving more than they can handle? Isn't it a coincidence that we're not interviewing individuals when they are directly in the throes of pain as a result of reaching their limit? (We can't do that, of course) Isn't it a coincidence that humans freak the **** out when another human says they don't want to be here or have mixed feelings about existing? (Just to clarify, I'm not saying that everyone is lying about their feelings. But I don't know how many people are hiding their true feelings about existence because they don't want people to look down on them and neither does anyone.) These are just things to think about. But no matter: It's arrogant to make the huge decision of life for SOMEONE ELSE who can't make that choice and isn't even begging for it. It's arrogant to make the decision of life for SOMEONE ELSE who might regret that decision. It is arrogant to make the decision of life for SOMEONE ELSE who might not want the random amount of suffering and death that they have been "granted" through birth. (dimasok, for example) Are we just going to sweep these people under the rug? We can't pretend that everything is okay. We can't pretend that we had nothing to do with them. We have EVERYTHING to do with them. Their pain is real and they deserve to be considered, too. If you're still not sure how arrogant pro-natalism is think about this for a second: The main pro-natalist arguments for breeding are WE like living (so far) and WE want to continue the human race. Notice the "WE." Notice how literally irrational those arguments are. Who cares if YOU (general "you") like living so far? What does that have to do with OTHER POTENTIAL PEOPLE who aren't even begging to exist? Who cares if YOU want to continue the human race? Seriously. What does that even mean? This "Continue the human race" mindset is the direct result of mindless nature. There is no need to allow it to control us and make us mindlessly breed. Life isn't a contest or a race. It doesn't "need" to continue. We weren't crying tears of sadness before humanity came into existence and we won't do it after we stop existing. Anti-natalism is FAR from arrogant because anti-natalism says, "You know, have fun while you're here. Why not? You're designed to. But why do you need to make the decision of life for others? You don't. So don't do it." Simple. Again, I understand the fear of "Oh my god what if I didn't exist?" I do. But it's an irrational one. You wouldn't have been crying if you didn't exist. But if things, God forbid, go horribly wrong people WILL be crying before going back into non-existence. And those tears are absolutely unnecessary. In one fantastic documentary I watched (and would highly recommend) called "How to Die in Oregon," the beautiful terminally ill woman who eventually committed suicide to escape her suffering flat-out said, "I didn't sign up for this." Obvious at least mixed feelings about non-existence. Again, some things to think about.
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Trust me when I say that anti-natalism pays a GREAT deal of attention to reality. Unlike pro-natalism, we don't just sweep these folks under the rug as "unfortunate" and suggest that we "try again" with the breeding process. These real people's lives, these real people's pain is BEYOND "too bad." We don't even have a word for that horror. All we can say is "Thank God it'll eventually end." And that is nowhere near enough.
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Join Date: Feb 2006
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Is the anti-natalist morally bound to do what they can to reduce suffering in the here and now, for themselves and others, or only potential suffering?
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Procreation just doesn't make sense to me at all. Even one person suffering in a world of 7 billion is just too much of a risk to take because, again, the pleasure of life could never be balanced with the suffering in life because in a neutral state of non-existence, pleasures aren't missed and there is no harm but in a future state of existence, harm is everywhere and the pleasures rarely counterbalance it to the preferred degree. Essentially, when you're creating a new consciousness, you're saying "I think this life is good and this world is sufficiently safe that I want others to experience it no matter what they could come to think about it. I'll take the risk" Now you can definitely take a risk with your own welfare and do extreme sports for instance, however you really don't have a right to play with the welfare of others who might not come to appreciate that "gift" you gave them at all. The fact that there are so many suicides out there as well as depressed people due to all the horrors of life, the collapsing ecosystem and the threat of mankind extinction should serve as enough of a warning that perhaps bringing yet another victim here is not such a bright idea and that perhaps betting on your kid being shielded from all that is just statistically improbable and too optimistic.
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My take on it is a little bit more complicated than that. I wouldn't mind if someone pressed the button and ended my life and the lives of everyone around me as I don't see much of any value in society or humanity as a whole and I don't think the suffering and the imposition of life are justified. However, while theoretically I would say that yes I would press the button, in practice I probably wouldn't because I wouldn't want to drag all the people who do happen to enjoy life despite how horrific it is with me. I mean, they were already born so its too late to prevent that biggest harm of them all, so killing them now could perhaps be at odds with how they view life and that would be equivalent to mass genocide and make me look like another Hitler. |
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New Blood
Join Date: Dec 2012
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Yes, whenever he can reduce suffering should definitely be on his agenda. However, as long as he doesn't procreate, he surely prevented at least one vehicle of suffering to go through the rigmarole of life so that contribution alone is of value to him.
I think the only case where procreation could be justified is if the potential being was trapped in some sort of state where he was screaming for me to save him/her from all the horrors he goes through. In that case, giving birth to him wouldn't be as much of an imposition as you would naturally get his consent and would reduce his suffering (however, its still questionable whether what he would experience here is any better than what he experienced there). |
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Penultimate Amazing
Join Date: Jun 2005
Location: way way north of Diddy Wah Diddy
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To make the example fairer I should probably have relabeled the button "sterilize all humanity now," but too late I suppose. Of course as usual you have slipped and fallen down the liguistic rabbit hole in the last sentence. You won't look like anything at all if there's nobody to look. I must say I find it unsettling that how you would look seems more important than the possibility that those who enjoy life are right. However, we will pass that one over, assuming that language is a tricky bastard.
It's a poor idea to bring up the Chinese example. Actually it's more than a poor idea, it's a really stupid one. The one child policy is purely social and anti-individualistic, addressing the numerical issue of population in order that the society survive as long and as well as its leaders hope. It happens to address breeding, but its goals are the very opposite of the antinatalist's. Everything about the policy is aimed at strengthening and prolonging the Chinese culture and nation. I'm a bit busy this weekand not ready to address every point as I might, but cannot stay out of it entirely. One of the main problems in all of this discussion seems to be that there are two versions of antinatalism being argued at the same time, and seemingly by the same parties. One, what I would call the mild form, is effectively the non-breeding decision, with an addition of persuasion. One can argue for or against the reasons for this, but there are plenty of good as well as bad reasons for a person to decide to skip breeding and to end his line. It's an individual's choice and not really open to argument. The individual is free, and what he does or advocates is free. We can accept or reject it as we choose. But inherent in this is that freedom and the realization that society will continue. People will not stop breeding, even if the reasons you do are good. The hard version of antinatalism of course goes much further than this, because it advocates the utter end of humanity. Practically speaking, this is a wishful thinking theory, impossible to achieve unless it is coercive and universal. Jayjayjay claims not to understand what I mean here, but I think you'd have to be a fool not to realize that if you opt out of society without killing it, society will go on without you, and that it is on average, at best morally neutral, since certainly all possibility of anyone from your lineage ever doing something to improve it is gone. In the more likely reality, if the antinatalist is, in fact, a person of better than average intelligence and moral discrimination, practicing the partial version means handing the world over to those who are not. The problem is that the antinatalists seem to be advocating the hard version, but when called on its faults they point out that only the soft version can actually happen. You cannot use the impossibility of an enterprise to deflect criticism of its principles. I say that human culture itself is a benefit that trumps the individualistic ideas of antinatalism. Pointing out that it won't work anyway hardly makes those ideas less wrong. Jayjayjay and Derchin keep bringing up the issue of necessity. It is, of course, truistically obvious that it is not necessary for an individual to breed. Many do not. But from the point of view of humanity as a whole, it's just as obvious how necessary it is for someone to breed, even though the individual remains free. You cannot argue the individual point of view alone and still claim that you value society in any meaningful way. The argument comes up that because everything will eventually end and we as individuals will inevitably die there's no essential difference between ending it now and continuing it as long as we can. If there can be no absolute, or no guarantee that mankind will go forever, the prospect that it will end means we might as well do it now. But if you are going to stick to the relative, a minute is not a year. A short life is not a long one. If you value life you do not hope for its early end. Period. But there is another (and I would have thought pretty obvious) problem with the argument from necessity that keeps coming back up. And that is, quite simply, that the entire idea of necessity is fabricated. Who, aside from the person with the idea, says that a thing must be necessary in order to be worth doing? Who except the person with the idea says that what an individual can or cannot tolerate should be the rule for mankind as a whole? A person can live a life in prison. Art is not necessary. Most of the great wonders and beauties of culture are unnecessary. A great many of us will live and die without having created much of the grandeur that surrounds us. But what a drab, unnhappy and stupid world we would have if we looked only to individual necessity as our guide for humanity! I was thinking about this as I was driving to my destination today, and here, as far as I can see it, is the antinatalist logic, along with the justifications we've heard, applied to a smaller idea: I have read, and enjoyed, Jane Austen's Pride and Prejudice. It's very good, and I value it as fine literature. I could (indeed, really! )go on and on about this. However, I have decided that people who spend their time reading it are not helping mankind enough - it does not teach morality in the way I wish, and it certainly is not necessary. So I am advocating that the work be banned, all copies mulched to grow vegetables, the CD's shredded and recycled, and all electronic space reserved for it given over to instructional manuals on safe driving, and all records of its existence expunged. Mind you, I am not saying it's not good, even great, but some day it will disappear, so we might as well disapappear it now. It's entirely unnecessary. Many people on earth have lived without it. Once read it's not unread, so those who have read it cannot complain and those who have not will never realize what they're missing. What's wrong with this argument? Well, it's supper time, and I'm visiting for a few days, so I will close with a Merry Xmas or whatever holiday floats your craft. Have a good one and keep your finger off the damn button for a while longer, thanks. |
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I think that the following video would shed more light on what I mean as he goes to great explanation as to why its an imposition: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-6B_vlHMu1g
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It doesn't matter if one person would actually prefer to see the second scenario happen. What matters is what's right and what reduces/eliminates suffering and leads to the greatest prosperity for everyone. So mankind would agree with the first scenario as being the rule of the whole if one person professes it and another person professes the other one.
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