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New Blood
Join Date: Sep 2003
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Son taken in
My son, age 14, has spent some years listening to Art Bell. I thought it harmless fun. I sometimes listen and consider it like ghost stories told around the campfire when I was a boyschout. I was wrong. He now has some pretty goofy ideas. He claims he doesn't believe 85% of what the show talks of, but still believes in Jupiter blowing up, the power of George Nori(SP?) to change the path of hurricanes, and has a beyond healthy distrust of our government and all they are hiding from us.
I have printed out some pages debunking some of his beliefs, but to him it is one scientist's word against the other. At his age banning him from listening seems odd, but last year a teacher told us the other kids consider him pretty odd when he shares his beliefs in class. He doesn't seem to care. Any thoughts or recommendations? Bryan Seattle |
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woo ban clan
Join Date: Sep 2002
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Actually right now is a good time not to trust the government, but let's not get into that...
My first question would be whether he really believes that carp or is just posturing to make himself seem interesting. He's at that age where kids will dress as goths, listen to rude music, etc. as a form of rebellion. There are some good books out there, such as Fads & Fallacies by Martin Gardner and Flim Flam by James Randi which treat various topics from a skeptical perspective. The hope is that they would go beyond the specifics of the cases treated, and instill a healthy skeptical viewpoint in the reader. You could search the forum for threads on the specific topis you mention, e.g Jupiter blowing up, George Nori. If there are no threads, you could start some, and then steer your son to them. Quite frankly I'm not familiar with either of those examples. |
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Perfectly Poisonous Person
Join Date: Mar 2003
Location: Wacky Washington Way Out West
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Hi Bryan! It is me, Pat's mom (by the way your son did not call back yesterday... we did a bit of soccer driving around, so we could have dropped Pat off at your house --- I'll see you Tuesday, they are in the same math class).
We don't even listen to Art Bell around here, and we have a similar problem with Pat. He wants to believe in aliens, that Star Trek is true... etc. One saving grace is that he insists on watching NOVA every Tuesday. All that I have been able to do is explain to him why it does not work. Dear hubby and I have spent quite a time trying to convince the 13 year old why horoscopes have no basis in reality. I figure coming back with some forms of logic is usually best. I just returned Phil Plait's book Bad Astronomy to the library. You might try getting for your son this Christmas (or sooner). It is a great read. Here is his website: http://www.badastronomy.com I'll see you around |
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I used to be intelligent... but then I had kids "HCN, I hate you!" ( so sayeth Deetee at http://forums.randi.org/showthread.php?p=1077344 )... What I get for linking to http://scienceblogs.com/insolence/
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Perfectly Poisonous Person
Join Date: Mar 2003
Location: Wacky Washington Way Out West
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Re: Son taken in
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http://www.badastronomy.com/bad/misc...r_galileo.html I believe it still intact. By the way, Pat's combo birthday/Christmas present was a new telescope. We found Mars... if Jupiter has blown up, the we would definitely see it. |
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I used to be intelligent... but then I had kids "HCN, I hate you!" ( so sayeth Deetee at http://forums.randi.org/showthread.php?p=1077344 )... What I get for linking to http://scienceblogs.com/insolence/
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TAM Chocolate Dispenser
Join Date: Sep 2003
Location: The Heart of Old Europe
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Dear surbahar,
if you´re considering some book as a present for your son, I have two other titles to propose. They´re books by Carl Sagan (don´t know if you´ve heard of him; an astronomer, used to be in TV a lot while he was still alive). The first, and definitely more worthwhile in this case, is "Demon-Haunted World" - I´m not so sure about the English title, I read the German translation a long time ago. It is written in a very entertaining way, and deals with science as a whole, and how to tell science from pseudo-science; it also has several chapters on politics and how a basic understanding of science can help people not be fooled by politicians. The second book is "Billions and Billions"; yet more about science and politics, the same entertaining style. Sagan was one of the few sciencists I ever knew who could teach without being boring. And, by the way, I agree that this might be a way of rebelling for your son - one of these "phases" teenagers tend to have. I know that. I had mine from 13 or 14 to about 20. Then "Demon-Haunted World" cured me - so you should really give this book a try. |
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Grand Master, Knights of the Question Mark Illusion: too good to be true - Reality: too true to be good Authors build castles in the sky, readers live in them and publishers collect the rent. - Maxim Gorki Folks enjoy a witch-hunt as long as they are on the blunt end of the pitchfork. - Suezoled You can't use logic to talk a man out of a position that he didn't use logic to get himself into - passed down by Nyarlathotep Kids these days are better than their parents since they constitute the newest edition, the beta version of our societies - Cleopatra You´ll have to accept the fact that some people are just plain nuts. - Paul C. Anagnostopolous |
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Graduate Poster
Join Date: Feb 2003
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First of all, your son is perfectly normal.
If you surveyed the students at the school you'd find a large number of them are currently into astrology, numerology, "natural healing", witchcraft, and "the evil gummint" conspiracy theories. The only thing I'd do is make sure your son has available a wide range of entertaining resources which outline the skeptical viewpoint. Look for radio stations who have regular guests presenting spots on science, religion and philosophy and health issues. We are very fortunate here in having a youth oriented publicly owned radio station (Triple J rocks) which sandwiches a great many informative and entertaining guests in between its music. Has your son seen the documentary A Brief History of Time? The possibilities of real science are far more entertaining than anything Art Bell ever dreamed of. The British, in particularly, make extremely high quality, entertaining programmes addressing scientific issues. I often see people referring to these programmes, so I assume that they must be available on pay TV in the US. If you can overlook Karl Kruszelnicki's obsession with farts, his website and messageboard are worth a look. |
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Ayay ashay ayay
Join Date: Apr 2003
Posts: 9,029
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Plenty of kids go through their "Psychic" phase. Hasnt everyone at one time or another entertained their fantasies by believing they can predict the future, or have telekenisis, or believed in God *evil grin*...
Your son will grow out of it, just make sure he doesnt go diluted. Hey, maybe you could get an advanced copy of Lucianarchy's "What Science Can't Explain" book... |
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Graduate Poster
Join Date: Feb 2003
Posts: 1,859
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I should probably warn you that the website and messageboard I linked to above is hosted on the Australian Broadcasting Corporation servers and that there are links provided to other forums hosted on the same servers - such as the Doing Drugs with Paul Dillon forum.
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Illuminator
Join Date: Jul 2001
Location: CA
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I think Art Bell is only a ringmaster; he ain't a freak, he just exhibits them.
And why not. |
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New Blood
Join Date: Sep 2003
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Thanks to all for the thoughts.. and good ones they are. I will look at those books.. and more importantly.. breath deeply and count to ten.
Nice also to see that Jupiter didn't blow up. ;-) And hi to Pat's mom.... what a small world. Bryan |
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Mad Scientist
Join Date: Jul 2003
Location: Alberta
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Jupitor blowing up
And how? WTH?
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Motion affecting a measuring device does not affect what is actually being measured, except to inaccurately measure it. the immaterial world doesn't matter, cause it ain't matter-Jeff Corey my karma ran over my dogma-vbloke The Lateral Truth: An Apostate's Bible Stories by Rebecca Bradley, read it! |
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Critical Thinker
Join Date: Oct 2002
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See http://www.badastronomy.com/bad/misc...r_galileo.html |
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Mad Scientist
Join Date: Jul 2003
Location: Alberta
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Motion affecting a measuring device does not affect what is actually being measured, except to inaccurately measure it. the immaterial world doesn't matter, cause it ain't matter-Jeff Corey my karma ran over my dogma-vbloke The Lateral Truth: An Apostate's Bible Stories by Rebecca Bradley, read it! |
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MaterialistPatriotic AgnosticSocialistNaieve Saskatchewanian RadicalCanuckistani
Join Date: Oct 2002
Location: Manitoba, Canada
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Yep, I went through that phase a few years ago(and still have the woowoo children's books to prove it). Show him www.csicop.org , www.skepdic.com, www.skeptic.com, or any of the other good skeptical resources on the internet.
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