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Join Date: Aug 2003
Location: Western Wisconsin
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Sister says kidney stones worse than giving birth!
And she isn't just a whislin' Dixie. I could have told you that. Buuuttt...I never gave birth. I had preSUMED this to be so based on the fact that I never heard of a woman about to give birth, who was dry heaving...and who had to literally crawl around on their hands and knees from being in so much pain....and who had to be fed morphine intravenously.It is an extreme internal pain. You have nothing to grab onto, such as what you could do if you damaged one of your limbs.How about any of you other posters. Ever pass a kidney stone? Or, have them and they have to operate or give you the ultrasound treatment? |
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Join Date: Aug 2001
Location: Dayton, OH
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I've passed a dozen or so kidney stones. The only worse pain I've experienced was an acute case of epididymitis.
A former coworker of mine told me that her kidney stone hurt worse than her two childbirths combined. My wife doesn't believe her. |
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Join Date: Sep 2003
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My Mother gave birth to me as well as my Sister without drugs. She says the body just numbs that area in the final pushes.
She says that mumps hurt worse than childbirth, and urinary tract infections, too. I don't know about kidney stones, but it would seem that since men have a longer urethra, that it would hurt far worse for them than for a woman. I mean, for pete's sake, it's a sharp, jagged thing scraping along your urethra. Yeah, that's gotta hurt. |
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Penultimate Amazing
Join Date: Jun 2003
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My anaesthesiologist mother tells me kidney stones are worse than birth. I don't think she'd had kindney stones, but I'll take her word on it as an expert in other people's pain.
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Join Date: Jul 2003
Location: Silicon Valley, Calif.
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But just think of that beautiful little new life you'll be creating when the stone finally goes all the way through! Isn't the pain worth it?
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Join Date: Mar 2003
Location: Northern Ontario
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I had kidney stones about 5 years ago. It HURT LIKE HELL!
I'm not the kind of person who moans & groans a lot but I'm sure I was sweating and writhing quite a bit. I had several nurses stop to tell me that "this is nuthin' compared to childbirth" or words to that effect. I don't know if they were trying to be funny or just implying that I should just "suck it up" or something but I sure didn't appreciate it at the time. In a just world I would have an opportunity to pop into the delivery room just as a doctor is slipping the forceps into one of those nurses and say something like, "Ooh, jeez, I hear that hurts worse than kidney stones!" I just reread that and it sort of sounds like some kind of sick fantasy but that's not the way I meant it... honest. |
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Join Date: Apr 2003
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don't they give painkillers for kidney stones?
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Join Date: Jul 2003
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Re: Sister says kidney stones worse than giving birth!
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Shakespeare's Sock Puppet
Join Date: Mar 2003
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My mom had both; claims kidney stones are worse. I have had kidney stones, as well as broken bones, concussions, etc. Kidney stones are worse than broken bones, not so bad as broken heart.
Also had a really bad reaction to the radioactive isotope crap they put in your bloodstream to check your kidneys on the scope. Felt like my brain was exploding. I'd put that below kidney stones, but well above a broken collarbone or arm. |
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Join Date: Jul 2002
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Note to self Do not get kidney stones.
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Penultimate Amazing
Join Date: Aug 2001
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I have heard from friends that kidney stones cause serious agony, with women saying that they are worse than childbirth.
I have also heard that shingles are more painful than childbirth. |
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Surfing on the relativistic brain wave
Join Date: Aug 2003
Location: Old Europe
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a_unique_person,
the most important thing in order to avoid kidney stones is to drink! At least 2 liter per day (not sure about US units). Coffee and Tea don't count. Trust me you don't want to have them. AFAIK, it hurts when the stone is travelling. The pain in or close to the kidney is worst. So this should be the same for woman and men. The passage from bladder to birth of the little critter is quite tolerable. More a burning sensation than real pain. So no real problem that men have a longer way to go...
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Join Date: Sep 2003
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Note to AUP: 2 litres is just under half a gallon. (~ 0.45). Make that half a gallon to be on the safe side.
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Muse
Join Date: May 2003
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I've never had kidney stones so I can't say I'm sure about that. I have heard it before, but I've given birth four times and one of those times was without pain relief (mostly).
In all honesty it was the worst thing in my entire life. Someone said their mother said the pain is numbed in the final pushes Let me tell you something ... she just wants grandbabies!!!! Certainly didn't happen in my case. I do think that it would have to depend on the personal cases involved and all the factors to do with the birthing/stones. Some people have different tolerance levels to different sorts of pain (going soley on my own experience in that) Just to be safe though, I'm going to start looking at preventative measures no stones for me Toni |
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Join Date: Sep 2002
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Now back to kidney stones: of course they're worse than childbirth, because men can get them too. (ducks quickly) |
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Join Date: Apr 2003
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i don't see why coffee or tea wouldn't count as liquid intake. both are almost 100% water, afterall.
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Muse
Join Date: May 2003
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I'll look up for some technical information and edit this if I find a suitable link. Toni |
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Muse
Join Date: Feb 2003
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Hey all. Good topic, of which I am (unfortunately) somewhat of an expert on.
I suffer (and suffer is a very good word for it) from chronic kidney stones. I get them every couple months, and I produce several at a time. I currently have 5 little babies inside me, as we speak. As far as the pain goes. I am a guy, so I can't speak on childbirth, but during my numerous hospital stays, I have run into many women, both patients and nurses, who have had both. Almost UNIVERSALLY, they stated kidney stones are worse, and must be doubly worse for a guy, simply because we have. . . 1. More plumbing, hence a longer route for the stone to go 2. A narrower urethra. Also, if this helps you visualize it a bit, I have a friend who was in the military, and has been shot 3 times. He also had one kideny stone. He said he'd rather take all three bullets at the same time then have another kidney stone, and he was very serious. The pain is tough to describe, and varies from person to person greatly. My brother has also had 3 stones. He has virtually no pain whatsoever, but will pee blood. It's really the only way he knows. For me, the pain is the typical 'kidney stone pain' level. Doctors put it into the same catagory as childbirth, severe burns, and pancreatic disorders/cancer. This is the HIGHEST pain catagory most hospitals have. Morphine does nothing for me. I have only found one friend for my frequent attacks; a drug called Diluadid, with Toradol mixed in. This cocktail is the only thing that can alleviate the pain that comes from stones, and I have literally crawled into the hospital begging for it. I have had several attacks while driving. Not a good thing. I have literally driven miles SCREAMING alone in my car, crying, biting my hand, all the way to the nearest hospital. A fortunate thing is, if you have a kidney stone and walk into ER, as long as you give them a very clear description of your kidney stones symptomes, they are usually fairly quick to get you in. In other words, you get 'bumped up' in front of a lot of other 'minor' people. ER is all about determining priority, and we 'stoners' are pretty high on the list. Yes, you can die from kidney stones. The two main reasons are full blockage, making urination impossible, or. . . Shock from the massive amounts of pain that it causes. I wouldn't wish a stone on my worst enemy, and my sympathy goes out to all those who have had them. We are like cancer survivors in that we all look at each other with this knowing eye, and with respect. We know what it is like. It sucks. |
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Muse
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Surfing on the relativistic brain wave
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Muse
Join Date: May 2003
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seems so. It says in the 'location' paragraph that the intense pain associated with the stones is usually due to movement in the area between kidney and bladder.
Sorry guys, but it would seem your longer tracts don't make you entitled to more sympathy ![]() Thanks for the links toni |
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Shakespeare's Sock Puppet
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I was told (too late, sadly) that cranberry juice was even better than water for preventing kidney stones, due to antibiotic effects. Anyone know whether there is anything to that?
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Join Date: Jul 2003
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I refuse to believe that cranberry juice is effacacious in preventing kidney stones, for the sound scientific reason that I think cranberry juice tastes icky.
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Third twin for the real answer? |
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Muse
Join Date: Feb 2003
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Cranberry juice-
Good for preventing Urinary tract infections. As far as kidney stones, I have had doctors tell me all kinds of things, from 'doesn't diddly', to 'it sure can't hurt' to 'I want you to drink at least 2 glasses of cranberry juice a day, mister.' As far as scientifically speaking, I believe that the (very) high acidity in the juice would have at least SOME kind of dissolving effect. Most kinds of stones (there are at least 5-6 types) will dissolve fairly easily under certain conditions. I'd imagine a low pH in the urine woudl help that out a bit. Bottom line is, I personally don't have a problem with the taste (not my fav, but not bad) so I don't mind drinking a glass every now and then. |
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Join Date: Jan 2003
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Unfortunatly for me stones run in my family ( I have passed 15 in about 6 years). My great grandmother had eight kids and said she would rather have eight more than have another kidney stone. I can also verify that it is indeed the passage from the kidney to the bladder that is the painful part. Once it is in the bladder, for either a man or woman, the trip from the bladder out is a realitively short one. But more important you can control the trip out of the bladder.
It is an incredible pain but the fact that there is nothing that you can do to ease the pain is the worst part. You cannot get into a positon that ease the pain. |
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Muse
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Bump from an OLD thread.
I get CHRONIC kidney stones. 3+ times a year. I currently have SIX stones residing inside me, and I am havng surgery on one of them tomorrow. So, I have a question. WHAT CAN A PERSON DO TO STOP GETTING THEM??? Please don't tell me to drink more. I drink nearly a gallon a day. I also take B6, Magnesium, and B5 (Pantothalmic Acid). I try to eat a low-oxalate diet, and I avoid most caffine (although I do drink a cup of tea or 3 a day, but it is almost always green tea). HELP ME! I am in constant agony, and it just never stops. Surgery tomorrow is only for one of the 6 stones. they aren't even addressing the other 5. Also, my doctor sucks. The guy before him sucked too. Should I be seeing a Urologist, a Nephrologist, or just a general practitioner? Again, any and all thoughts will be taken seriously. |
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Anyway, a local talk show host, who is known for the odd songs he writes, had kidney stones a few years back. He wrote a song about the experience, which contained the memorable lines:
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Join Date: Oct 2001
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Well, I can't personally speak for giving birth, althought reactions of my very, um, physically unshakable spouse during the process are a hint indeed. "No, dear, we can't just stop now and wait until tomorrow, no, I'm afraid we have to stay here and do it now."
However, I can safely say that infected urethal strictures are entirely unpleasant. Oh, and make sure the swiss seat isn't going to slip when you fall, too. OW OW OW. |
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Larspeart. I presume these things are mostly calcium compounds? (I argue from total ignorance yoy understand).
Whatever. Is there no possibility that a dietary change might reduce the material available for their formation? Is there no way to alter the environment in which they form? (A drinkable pH buffer for instance). Have you tried cutting out / adding specific food types to see if it helps? |
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