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Child molesters need the death penalty.
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A baby. Goo goo ga ga
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A baby. Goo goo ga ga
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By the way, according to a local Fox affiliate, after the investigation asked for other victims to come forward...they did. We're now up to 20 victims.
http://www.foxnews.com/us/2011/11/08...-case-doubles/ |
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I think you're inventing room for speculation where there is none. Don't take this personally, but the idea that someone who walks in on his friend raping a little boy would turn around and leave without stopping him might do so because "he thinks he might be hallucinating" is pretty ridiculous, to me. If it's true that McQueary was a longtime friend of Sandusky, then if there was any "pausing to think", surely it was to decide whether it was more important to him to rescue the victim or keep his friend out of legal trouble. And frankly that's no less despicable. In the very best case, what we have here is a person seeing a crime in progress and simply refusing to get involved, like all those people who walked by the little girl who was run over multiple times in China without trying to help her. It's just as reprehensible.
No matter how his inaction was motivated, witnessing a child being raped and allowing it to continue, not to mention failing to call the police, is unquestionably worse than being notified of a recent child rape and not calling the police. It's not even a contest. I'm not claiming anybody who sees it has no excuse not to turn into Rambo Hulk and beat the hell out of the offender; I wouldn't have either. But I would expect anybody in that situation to at least take some kind of action to rescue the child. Run, fine - but grab the kid and run. Not a single person in this case, very definitely starting with McQueary and going on up the chain, showed the slightest deference, regard, or consideration for the victim in the case, or any of the future victims whose molestation was an unavoidably foreseeable result of their actions. |
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Can you imagine how that child felt knowing that someone walked in and saw him being raped, and just walked out and did nothing? If he hadn't been too scared to tell anyone before that, he sure as hell would have been afterwards. I don't know how that McQueary guy sleeps at night.
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Neither myself, an adult survivor of childhood sexual abuse, nor my husband can understand leaving that child there and just walking away.
Criticize me all you like for "pretending to know what you'd do." I do know what I'd do. That child would have been leaving with me, regardless. If violence were needed, I'd provide it. |
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Sure, I can't argue against anything you've written about what McQueary should have done given what we think we know about this. A scene as shocking as that, however, can be a source of cognitive dissonance that prevents someone from acting rationally in the moment; second-guessing oneself following the experience could be paralyzing too.
Like I said, I'd prefer to put off the lynching 'til more details emerge. |
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Yes, and the same can be said for the caretaker who witnessed another sexual assault in the showers and didn't stop it. Apparently he told his fellow caretakers and they were all worried about losing their jobs if they said anything. FFS - priorities people.
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As a university alumnus and now employee, it's been fascinating and a bit overwhelming to watch the pillars collapse. But no one seems surprised.
Paterno has this incredible aura of untouchability. The team has a string of bad seasons? No worries, let's see where the program is in five years. A player has a run-in with the law? Paterno laughs and says "boys will be boys". The team suffers a bad loss? He jokes about going home and beating the wife. One of your good ol' boys rapes a 10-year old? Pass the buck, worry about the next game. Even in this shameful and horrible case, people are strangely hesitant to target Paterno. Locally, the call is to tar and feather the university president. Yet he was far enough down the chain that it wouldn't surprise me if he only heard a sanitized version of the events. |
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I think you're right.
I believe he'll be leaving sooner than that, they cancelled his weekly press conference today and the rumours are flying: http://www.steelernation.com/forums/...from-PSU/page3 |
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How interesting that we are so so ready to declare unthinkable immorality on an individual in a situation (not following through or fist-fighting and instead deferring to authority) that repeated itself so reliably. From a psychological perspective, the behaviours read like classic examples (See: Milgram Experiments, The Lucifer Effect, etc.)
Obviously their actions, and mostly inactions, led to more horrible abuses, but let's not pretend that somehow only incredibly scummy individuals came across this. |
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If I were to witness a man anally raping a 10-year-old, I'm not walking away from that.
I'm not leaving that child there. And if--IF--it came down to violence to stop him, then that's what it comes down to. Make of it what you will, won't hurt me none. |
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Fine; a whole bunch of apathetic individuals came across this.
...nothing seems to have changed. Whether the inaction was the result of people just not particularly caring, or choosing their friend's safety over the rape victims', or being absolutely evil...it makes no difference to the outcome, any more than does the fact that, after all, Sandusky did run a charity for children. They chose to do nothing, and because of that more abuse took place - both directly (in the case of the little boy Sandusky was allowed to finish raping after being walked in on) and indirectly (in the case of other children Sandusky had access to who were abused because nobody reported Sandusky). All their current finger-pointing and buck-passing and shouts of "it wasn't my responsibility" that we're currently witnessing is nothing but a QED of exactly the attitude that facilitated Sandusky's abuses. |
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So he's gone from being the defensive coordinator for Penn State to coordinating his defense to avoid the state pen.
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I appreciate your point. Another aspect that has struck me is hearing to the reaction to this story. I listen to ESPN radio and the radio host after radio host described this as so heinous ... so outrageous ... so horrible. I hard-pressed to remember the last time I've heard people this outraged. But outrageous things occur all the time. Why is this incident causing the reaction that I'm seeing? |
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Wait, you're insinuating that those unnamed, unspecified other "bad outrageous things" don't cause this reaction. If that's so...how are they deemed outrageous if no one's expressing any outrage?
They DO cause this reaction. It's as if this is the first time you've ever seen people upset. |
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My uncle made me do things to him. I go to mental health counselor at the clinic now, someday I think maybe humans will not harm each other, but not before I die.
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Just as odd how it's stopped being about the issue at all, but rather is now about how we're discussing it. Because that's more important.
Sandusky's a very sick man who should go away for good. Paterno and the entire body of people who had knowledge of these events should have some prison time in some cases, should have fines in others, or a combination; should expect to face lawsuits, loss of job or position, and other social and economic penalties. This is a horrible series of events and my outrage knows no bounds. Does that satisfy the....requirements? |
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Sandusky's been "skipped over" in this discussion because the monstrosity of his actions (assuming the allegations are true) aren't considered by anyone to be a matter that's up for debate.
As for the "least responsible party" (by which I assume you refer to the man who saw the rape in progress and permitted it to continue uninterrupted), there's nothing that Paterno and his superiors can be accused of that said individual is not also guilty of; it's really that simple. There's no reasonable argument for why it would be reprehensible that Paterno (et al) didn't call the police but okay that the first-hand witness did not either. |
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The discussion hasn't been about the issue; it's been about what a bad guy the graduate assistant was. According to the indictment, the graduate assistant was "distraught" and "upset" by what he saw. Basically he was a victim of Sandusky, too. The transgressions listed in the indictment began in 1994, and there were many opportunities along the way for other people to stop Sandusky before he raped the boy in the locker room in 2002, including an actual police report in 1998. If responsible people had done their jobs, the GA would not have been put in a position he had no training for. It's definitely a fascinating phenomenon. The GA, as an employee of the school and part of its culture, somehow "got" that going directly to the police might not work out for the best. Could he believe his eyes? Would he embarrass the boy? Would the police believe him over a professor emeritus (which Sandusky is)? I am sure many questions ran through his head while he was trying to deal with what he had seen, or thought he had seen. And what about all the other people who "knew," but didn't want to know? Sandusky's wife, the boys' parents, Schultz, Curley, Paterno, the police detectives who interviewed Sandusky in 1998 and got him to promise never to do it again? So much goes into enabling pedophiles, especially when they are respected members of the community. The victims themselves don't even know what's going on when it is happening to them; they don't even know they have rights. Until recent times, pedophilia has not been, in our culture, a simple question of right vs. wrong or black vs. white. A lot of it has been about protecting the "dignity" of the predator. |
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Every single one of these people can at least make the argument that they never personally saw anything that suggested to them something was wrong. That's something McQueary alone can't argue.
Blame for this, or any situation, isn't a finite "thing", so that one person shoulders a certain percentage of it and that leaves only a certain remaining percentage of blame to distribute amongst however many others there are. The fact that there were others, even many others, doesn't lighten McQueary's load. What kind of "training" is one supposed to get in order to be able to act properly when walking in on a man raping a little boy? McQueary witnessed a rape and did nothing. If Paterno and his superiors are so guilty of hearing about a rape and doing nothing, McQueary must also be guilty. Your list of proposed "questions that must have been going through his mind" could be applied to anyone - including Paterno and his superiors. I honestly can't believe how far people are straining credulity to give this guy a pass. According to the indictment he had no question about what he saw - he even distinctly remembers Sandusky and the victim looking directly at him. And you guys are forgiving his inaction because of things like "he might have thought he was hallucinating"? Jesus Christ on a stick, if I walk in on somebody raping a kid, even if it occurs to me that I might be hallucinating it's not going to stop me from trying to intervene simply because I might not be &*$%ing hallucinating. |
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It really makes you wonder not only how widespread it is, but also how widespread it could become. I recently read about the custom of men in the Middle East keeping harems of boys, and how some of the boys interviewed said they couldn't wait to become men so they could get their own harems of boys.
I had a job that required me to visit some charter schools in Oregon, out in the rural areas. Something stood out to me -- all the teachers at the three schools I visited were men. It struck me as odd, so I did an online search of teacher statistics and found that Oregon has a higher number of male teachers than the national average, by a significant amount (this was a few years ago, so I can't remember the exact statistic). I know there is a well organized international network of pedophiles, with their own websites, etc. I started thinking, what if word got around about places (like Thailand, for example) where child sex was easy to get, or where so many members of the population were pedophile-friendly, that no matter how high you went, you could not get anybody to take any action against them? Now comes Penn State with a pretty good example of how that can work. I don't know who blew the whistle on this one, but if Sandusky were a close friend of the governor or the president, we might never have found out. |
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I'm not trying to hurt anyone, but most would claim the same about joining the Nazis and persecuting Jews in WWII Germany. electrocuting people as part of an experiment, etc. Meanwhile we know demonstrably that most of the time this is not the case.
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This doddering diva of the gridiron was in a position of consummate power and did NOTHING! Innocent , vulnerable children were being hurt, and this vainglorious potentate of the pigskin at Penn State did NOTHING!
He well deserves his fate of going down in history as a moral failure. Joe Paterno cannot win this one with a sleazy Hail Mary PR pass dreamed up by his lawyers and high-priced IMAGE consultants paid for by Penn State. Appalling. |
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Well, I disagree, but I'm not going to go on and on about it. According to the indictment, there were other people who saw Sandusky in the showers and on the floor with boys. He also paraded these boys in public year after year, essentially presenting them as his partners at football games, banquets, etc. Now that we know the truth about what Sandusky was up to, we think, "Doh! -- obviously!" But when you're close to the situation, you often don't have the perspective. The GA did react, he just didn't react in the way you hope you would act in the same situation.
Over twenty years ago, a little boy who lived next door to me came to my house to play with my child. The little boy had a red hand print across his cheek, put there by his stepfather, who I had heard yelling at him moments before. I went so far as to pick up the phone to call the police, but overriding my decision was the thought of what was going to happen to that little boy after the police left, so I didn't call. Yes, I have felt very guilty about it ever since, and I like to think I would do things differently today, now that I am more than twenty years older and it is a different time. I have a feeling that the GA, too, now knows what he "should" have done ten years ago. What purpose does it serve to criticize him about it? |
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This story makes me want to vomit:
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This reminds me of those cases where someone needs help.... like the Chinese baby or that the guy who was stabbed in New York . I always find it funny how it always seems like the only 25 or so people on the entire planet that would not have done something are the same ones that just happen to be walking by and not doing anything.
I would have intervened. I was in Florida last winter with my wife and her parents when I witnessed this car just plow into another car and just drive off. We got a green light and my first instinct was to follow the car that was getting away (he was damaged too and I think pretty smashed up on the front end). My first instinct was follow the car get on the cell phone and call the police and give a license plate..... but I wasn't driving.... and when I started yelling to follow that car..... the other 3 just wanted to go the other way.... and we did. I'm determinately not a better person then any of them... not by a long-shot.... but in that moment I was. Mike McQueary is not a bad person... and in my mind he's not a rare person either. I can't give you a stat about the percentage of people who if faced with that situation would have acted like he did. But I'll tell you this.... it is not a small percentage, not by a long shot..... and I'm not even convinced he would be in the minority. He made the wrong decision and it's not the one I would have made. But I certainly don't hate the man. |
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Also, I'm sure there will be alot more boys coming forward in time.
This will be a financial disaster for the university. And you know there will be about 10 or so boys that were never touched back in 98 or when ever that will be coming forward for a big payday. We had a case like that here in Nova Scotia.... it was a disaster.
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This is not going to be limited to Penn State. I'll bet similar incidents at other big sports universities soon come to light.
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