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anthropomorphic ape
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Too Drunk to Consent?
Ok - so a high(ish) profile case in the UK at the moment - a professional footballer jailed for 5 years for having sex with a woman too drunk to consent:
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Without getting into the specifics of the case (which I don't know....though it seems odd that one man was cleared whilst the other convicted despite them both having sex with the woman....any more details on this?) it makes me wonder on a few things: 1) Is there a legal definition of "too drunk"? What metric is used? 2) Could a woman ever be convicted of rape under the same law? (Has it happened?) 3) Does the law only apply if one person is sober and the other drunk? What if both people are too drunk? Is there the same liability? Could both people be convicted of rape for the same sex act? discuss..... |
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As far as I can tell from the cases I have seen, it means basically so drunk that you are lying there not really knowing what is going on. I've never read of a case in which, for example, a woman was very drunk, but enthusiastically participated in the act and then claimed to be too drunk to consent. If that is the case, it seems to answer your other questions about what if both are drunk.
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anthropomorphic ape
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I can agree that there should be an offence of having sex with someone so drunk that they are basically paralytic - but i am interested in the practicalities of where the line for "too drunk" is drawn. Anyone know the actual legal guidelines? Lots of stumbling and slurring people have sex and suffer memory loss the morning after, but are they all guilty of rape? How did they go beyond that to prove she was basically paralytic? And could a woman be convicted of the same offence?
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I'm not sure of the legal guild lines and assume (until corrected by someone with more specific knowledge that is) that a jury is needed to determine that. You know, one of those 'reasonable' standards.
As to a woman being convicted of the same offense, I can't think of a reason why not. |
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anthropomorphic ape
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I ask because I can't see it actually happening - there's just such a different social attitude towards sex depending on whether it's men or women. The first question is how many men would wake up having had sex they don't remember , having been too drunk and regard that as rape? The second question is if a man did regard it as rape, how seriously would the police, the CPS or ultimately a jury take that allegation? The definition of rape when concerning a man and a woman seems pretty rooted in the notion that the man is the perpetrator and the woman the victim.
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The woman should be taking at least half the blame-- she willingly handed control of her body over to a drunk. Who would be blamed if he had run into her car at an intersection?
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Originally Posted by andyandy
It is quite clear that people drugged cannot give consent. The problem is that culturally we are fine with people drugging themselves with alcohol. As for if the other person is drunk, well that doesn't prevent them from committing other crimes. However, it is often difficult to even get a police investigation in cases like these. I suspect the celebrity factor might have ironically helped here. ETA: See later post on Sexual Offences Act. |
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Drunk people get laid. Then the state sends one of them to jail for 5 years. Is this China or what? Modern society can do better, can it? Either sex is legal when drunk or high, for everyone, or then it is illegal when drunk or high, for everyone. Please state try to decide, and be coherent.
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Drugged people also get sexually assaulted. I don't think anyone is saying the line is easy to draw, but it is silly to say there is no line.
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I am quite happy to live in a society that prevents people from being drugged and raped. The fact that self-druggers fall under that is only a practical problem for the judge or jury. |
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There is a CT or cynical sugestion floating around that the main reason that the policeand CPS went after the case so hard is to serve as a warning to the wider football comunity that they are not above the law. That the players happened to be white may be viewed as something of a bonus.
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Easy, if a woman is passed out don't have sex with her.
What's the problem? |
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Actually, women can be charged with rape in the UK (or at least in England) under certain unusual circumstances:
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This clarification on the law regarding alcohol and rape is relevant:
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Yes, there are huge issues with the treatment of men in cases of sexual assault and rape, cultural attitudes, and assumed states. For many people, the default state of a man for consent and sex is 'yes'. That is to say, unless a man actively denies wanting to have sex in a specific incident (and sometimes even then!), he is consenting for any sex involving a woman. The opposite is assumed for women. Unless she specifically grants consent, then she is in effect saying 'no' even by saying nothing at all. Note that I'm not saying they should meet in the middle for some 'Golden Mean'. I'd say that the default state for everyone should be 'no' until consent is given. Of course once given, it can be taken away at any time. And consenting to some sexual acts doesn't mean consent was given for other sexual acts. This can go on and on, and is a discussion with legs (but don't touch those legs without permission). Then you're either doing it very wrong, or very right. Serious answer? It depends on what you mean by 'during'. Personally I'd be pretty disappointed and/or freaked out that someone passed out during such an act. If the person consents and then passes out before beginning, I'd have to say that unless what they consented to included sex while passed out, then don't do it. After all, they are now incapable of articulating which sexual acts they are consenting too. With or without a condom? With or without a camera? With or without Janis from accounting? |
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I may have missed this, but any explanation why if both had sex with her only one was found guilty?
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Different circumstances basically. McDonald met the girl in a kebab shop (or stumbled across her might be a better phrase!), and took her back to his hotel in a taxi, where they had sex. At some point he'd sent a text message to his friends saying he'd "got a bird" and they turned up at the hotel; Evans tricked the receptionist into giving him a key, went to the room, had sex with the girl while the other two friends filmed it with a mobile phone through the window, and then left by the hotel's emergency exit.
The jury must have believed that the girl was too intoxicated to consent to sex, but that it was at least possible McDonald believed the girl had consented, and so they gave him the benefit of the doubt. Evans had no such excuse... |
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A person can be technically "conscious" and still be considered incoherent and unable to think. Take it from a former bartender and drunk, "passed out" is not the guideline that should be used. (I'm not sure what should be used, but it's not as clear as awake/passed out)
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That means you weren't doing a good job of it.
Seriously though, the litmus test is if a participant has no knowledge or recollection of the act ocurring, there may be grounds for prosecution. Locally there was a case involving several individuals who were students at De Anza college who were investigated for an instance of gang rape: http://www.sfgate.com/cgi-bin/articl...BACO1LHQ48.DTL Charges were not filed in part because the victim was so intoxicated she could not give a definitive account of the crime. Other women at the scene put an end to the festivites but could not I.D. the male actors. |
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That's not a very clear clarification really is it?
If she says yes but is too drunk to understand that she'll regret it in the morning where is that on this scale? Part of me wants to say that if you don't want to have sex with footballers you really should consider not drinking till you pass out in their rooms. On a more light hearted note has anyone tried the 'too drunk to consent' thing when buying crap you don't want/need off ebay? |
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I would guess that there was implied consent in that she went to the one guy's room. The other guy just showed up and doinked her - no implied consent. This absolutely does not appear to be a case of doing something stupid while drunk and regretting it.
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