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Trakar AKA/formerly TShaitanaku "Dubitanda quippe ad inquisitionem venimus; inquirendo veritatem percipimus." (By doubting we come to inquiry, and through inquiry we perceive truth.) — Peter Abelard |
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Trakar AKA/formerly TShaitanaku "Dubitanda quippe ad inquisitionem venimus; inquirendo veritatem percipimus." (By doubting we come to inquiry, and through inquiry we perceive truth.) — Peter Abelard |
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That's not a bad perspective, but let's make a small allowance for those who must be selfish and focused on themselves due to the dysfunction of others.
I've got some well-beloved soul-sucking vampires in my family, and I have to be selfish around them, or they bleed my heart and mind dry. That kind of selfish is survival, not sin.
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I understand and can relate to the perspective. But for me, a sin is a sin, and I don't make self-allowances for my sins (then I would tend to quit thinking of them as sins). I acknowledge them, try to minimize them, keep them in mind and always overcompensate for them.
Personally, I try not to blame others for my own choices, but I am human and all-too-frequently sinful in my own selfish preferences. I atone when and as I can, not out of fear or shame, but because I really do care about others and do not wish to impose the hardship of others having to deal with me at my worst any more than I can help. |
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Trakar AKA/formerly TShaitanaku "Dubitanda quippe ad inquisitionem venimus; inquirendo veritatem percipimus." (By doubting we come to inquiry, and through inquiry we perceive truth.) — Peter Abelard |
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To a conspiracy theorist, having double standards just means that they have twice as many standards. carlitos |
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Oh, okay, we don't agree on this at all, and won't do so.
This is why sin is a useless, ********** up, guilt-mongering, cruel, barbaric, backwards, ignorant, stone-age concept that has no place in a rational person's life. Not allowing the vampires in my family to hurt me, so that I can continue to love them but not bleed while I do so, is not a sin. I've no respect for anyone who tries to say that it is. |
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I did not say "give others what they want and think they need," but perhaps we are using the terms "care, concern and love" in different manners.
Oh, and yes, I have had a few family members, friends and colleagues with addictive personality issues, learning to deal with such issues is complicated and conflicting on many levels, I have nothing but respect and admiration for any who have struggled through such problems in themselves or those they care about. It is easy for me to understand how some came to believe that such individuals were possessed by demons. |
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Imposing our wills upon others is a selfish act and thus a sin, believing that we know better how others should live their lives is a selfish act and a sin. Sins are internal, not external events. Selfless acts are their own grace, selfish acts only turn the focus evermore inward and away from the helping and assisting of others.
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I believe the Bible was written by the people it says it was written by, which means in many cases we are talking about eye witnesses to the events, or at least to some of the events.
I also believe Moses wrote the Pentateuch, so I disagree with the idea that it was an oral tradition that was recorded after many centuries. |
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God has not told me anything, that I am unequivocally aware of. As the Creator of all that is, I am of the impression that the spirit of His design is infused into His creation. If I had no understanding or belief in God or religion, I'd like to think that my beliefs and actions would be the same or similar, but I am incapable of giving a much better answer than "I would hope that my actions would be the same."
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I believe there is a difference between actions motivated by "I am suffering with you now, because giving you what you want will cause you more intense pain and suffering," and "I am not giving you what you want because I am tired of you taking advantage of my help and assistance." It may seem a small distinction, and an all-too-easy leap in thinking to make, but it is a cross-over line of reasoning that shifts the focus from a mutual struggle to one of self-centered concerns. As I said, I'm all-too-often guilty of such myself, but it is only in acknowledging the nature of my own selfish considerations that I can put them into a proper perspective and try to limit them in the future, without this focus, I tend to gradually become more callous, cynical and uncaring of, or for, others.
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Trakar AKA/formerly TShaitanaku "Dubitanda quippe ad inquisitionem venimus; inquirendo veritatem percipimus." (By doubting we come to inquiry, and through inquiry we perceive truth.) — Peter Abelard |
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Originally Posted by AvalonXQ
Originally Posted by Trakar
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GENERATION 8: The first time you see this, copy it into your sig on any forum and add 1 to the generation. Social experiment. Ein krieg ohne feinde. |
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Well, I thought you understood, but I now don't think you do.
I refuse to share their suffering. I didn't cause it. They're causing it. They've no right to make me suffer for their mistakes; mistakes I did not make. You don't seem to understand the concept of enabling. Suffering with them keeps them from getting better, from recovering, from becoming healthy again. They don't have anything to fight for when I "share" their suffering. I simply feed their addictions when I do that. "I am not giving you what you want because I am tired of you taking advantage of my help and assistance," is EXACTLY what I MUST say to them. I won't make myself a willing victim of their illness. That's what I meant by "loving them into an early grave of their own making." I do love them. And that's why I allow them to suffer for their own mistakes. If they know I'm going to tolerate their drinking and drugging and keep them from the consequences, they have no reason to get better or seek help. I love them far too much to enable them to drink themselves to death. NO ONE ELSE should ever suffer for your mistakes. Sometimes, there's no way to avoid it. But I'm certainly not going to walk up to my own sons and ASK them for a heaping plate of pain. How stupid. No, we do not agree. I think you are so wrong as to be skirting close to addiction--addiction to suffering--yourself. Keep that sickness away from me. I won't own it. |
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A definition of 'sin' might be- "any type of bad behaviour that disrupts the natural harmony of the universe"
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MY definition of sin is:
Worthless, guilt-inducing BULL that solves nothing, advances nothing, and keeps people tied to strangling dogma. |
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My statements are complimentary. Selfish motivations result in sins, selfless motivations generally are not sins. Believing that your understanding is superior to all others and that you therefor must impose your understanding and will upon others is the ultimate in self-centered, selfish motivation. I do not understand what you find confusing or contradictory in this situation?
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What Is Sin?
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Einstein allegedly said "Reality is an illusion, albeit a very persistent one", and some eastern mystics tell us the same thing.
So if we regard our 'reality' as an illusion or a 'dream', it's possible that the bad vibes of negative mindsets (sin) can disrupt that fragile dream. "You can be in my dream if i can be in your dream" -Bob Dylan "We are such stuff as dreams are made on" -The Tempest "Strawberry Fields...nothing is real" - The Beatles "Have you ever had a dream, Neo, that you were so sure was real? What if you were unable to wake from that dream? How would you know the difference between the dream world and the real world?"-Morpheus in The Matrix
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And the key word is, of course, "believe". One of my revelations on the road to atheism was the realization that other people believed just as strongly in their beliefs as I as a Christian did in mine.
Eventually, a pox on all the silly, foolish, unjustifiable and unprovable nonsense. You have been provide on numerous occasions with many of the blatant contradictions in the Bible. Christian apologists have been twisting and turning in the wind since the Second Century with their contrived explanations. They have convinced no one but themselves and certainly not each other. If God existed, a literal Bible proves that he is a silly, foolish, misogynistic, uncaring, malevolent idiot. As the Creator of the Universe, he should at least be able to give a coherent explanation of himself instead of ridiculous stories that should not fool a six-year old. ![]() IMHO of course. |
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Remember team, Jesus died for your sins.
Know what that means?! It means if you dont sin Jesus died for nothing!! Are we gonna let that happen? Hell no! Now get out there, get busy sinning for all that you are worth and make his death MEAN something!! [/coach] ETA: Ausmericans tenure as a life coach ended when all of his clients ended up in prison from following this advice. S'okay though, his new career as a parole officer is doing great! |
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