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Proof of Life After Death!!
For all those seeking the "Truth " about life after death as well as the possibility of communicating with those who have crossed over please read about my experience with psychic medium John Edward. You must ALSO read all the comments to get more details and the full picture. Just google "Proof of life after death Yorktown" or here is the direct link:
yorktown-somers.patch.com/blog.../proof-of-life-after-death |
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We all know the truth already.
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Yesterday upon the stairs I met a man who wasn't there He wasn't there again today I wish that he would go away. |
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I suspect a drive-by spamming, but just in case:
No, thanks. I will read your links after you sufficiently summarize and discuss it here and read the resources we will provide you to describe confirmation bias, the tricks of mediums like John Edward, and other effects that mislead the unsuspecting into erroneous belief. I also ask that you explain how you, personally, distinguish between fake psychics (I assume you acknowledge that some exist) and the allegedly real psychics like John Edward. Otherwise, not interested, thanks. |
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Considering the rapidity of your response I must guess you did not actually read the blog or any of the comments. The truth is... a completely closed-mind is a very dangerous mindset.
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Wow, another completely closed-mind! "Not interested" in even reading my link? How does anyone expect to learn ANYTHING without being open to a new opinion and experience?
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Penultimate Amazing
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I will say it again in a different way: If you wish to discuss your experience here, then discuss it here. If, after hearing your discussion I feel your argument may have merit, I will go to your link, but not before.
Or perhaps I could just post links to the Skeptic's Dictionary. Will your open mind read all of those before we discuss anything? |
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My kids still love me. Last edited by Garrette; 26th November 2012 at 04:36 AM. Reason: To remove comments that were misdirected because I missed the post before mine. |
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Penultimate Amazing
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Or to put it still another way:
This is a discussion forum, not a go-to-this-link-before-I-even-talk-about-the-specifics forum. And I will happily engage you in the proper definition of open vs. closed minded and whether you or I fit that definition more closely. |
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Here's the correct link: http://yorktown-somers.patch.com/blo...fe-after-death
No proofs at all there; not even anything resembling propositions and conclusions. "Evidence" is anecdotal, and shows an appalling ignorance of cold/hot reading techniques (not to mention all of physics). |
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Actually my MLS degree and experience working as a librarian the past 23 years is a good indicator that perhaps I already have done a lot of research about fake mediums and the ways they try to trick people. But then again if you had read my link and all the comments you would already know that. But listen I don't have time to beg anyone to read my link I just mistakenly thought the people on this site were seeking knowledge. Obviously I was wrong.
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Actually, we're seeking discussion. Got anything you'd like to discuss?
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Yesterday upon the stairs I met a man who wasn't there He wasn't there again today I wish that he would go away. |
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"Science is a wall against which we crash all of our ideas. The ones that survive are the ones we keep, but they are still subjected to periodic crash tests." -Foster Zygote "And in science the default is that you're wrong. EVERYONE is wrong. You only can be not wrong if you have evidence to back up your claim." -Dinwar "That is not my circus; those are not my monkeys." -Howard Tayler |
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No, you are not wrong, but you are mistaken in assuming that we haven't run across such things many, many times before or that there aren't people, like me, who used to believe as you do, or that we haven't studied the techniques of frauds like John Edward to the nth degree. And I call him a fraud intentionally. I've studied him enough, and other mediums enough, and other psychics enough, and other claims enough to know that he has done exactly nothing to prove his claims. I also know it, as do many others here, from our own performing experiences. There are magicians and mentalists on this forum; I am one (albeit an amateur), and convincing people I am psychic is easy.
You imply we are arrogant, but let me ask you this question: I assume you believe there are fake psychics out there; I further assume that you know those fake psychics have a lot of believers who are as adamant as you that the fake psychics are in fact legitimate. Why are they wrong and you are right? Is it merely that you are smart enough to tell the difference while they are not? |
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Originally Posted by Robin Stettnisch
Famed Psychic Medium Author John Edward Talks New Book, Supernatural and Family
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Sorry, we could not find the page you requested. Please check the URL and try again. Thanks! |
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In the course of acquiring your education and vast experience did you ever run into the concept that though something may seem new and exciting to you, others before you have had the same experiences, but have done the appropriate research (with open minds) and through elimination of confirmation/affirmation biases, cognitive errors, etc., come to a quite different conclusion than yours?
These conclusions are provisional of course pending further data. Do you have any? How about a summary because your link is slow to load? |
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OK. I read the link now. I think you let yourself be tricked.
And, by the way, I'm sorry for your loss. |
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Since DallasDad posted it, I caved and clicked on the link. I got to the actual page, unlike Roger (sorry about that; not sure why it doesn't work for you).
DallasDad is correct. There is nothing at all convincing. I read the entire blog piece, which is short, and 30 or 40 of the comments; there are far too many comments to read them all without better reason to. Interestingly enough, many of the comments are by a skeptic (maybe two) pointing out how the blog isn't convincing. Robin's comments try to stick to the point, but a few other believer comments bring up the canards of not-using-our-whole-brain, and scientists-don't-know-everything. Robin's two main points seem to be that JE knew that she had just bought a refrigerator and that JE mentioned a connection between her brother and Valerie Harper (the brother had tickets to that night's Broadway show starring Valerie Harper). No transcript. No text of what JE actually said. A dismissal in the comments section of the skeptics who point out that finding things out about the sitter is easy and fast. And an admission in the comments section by Robin that she and her brother made the Valerie Harper connection after the show themselves; the significance apparently being missed. Not convincing at all, I'm afraid. |
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Wheres Harry Houdini when you need him?
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I just read your link and I am sorry for your loss. I think your memories of your father are far more valuable than the ones you allowed Edward to manufacture.
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Let's see if I've got this straight.
Your father was standing next to John Edward telling him intimate details, and the best John Edward could offer was, "his name has an ST sound", which isn't a hit, because Salvatore doesn't have an ST sound, a new refrigerator, a brain problem, a Valerie Harper connection and a Pearl Harbour day connection. If your father were actually standing there telling him things he wouldn't have offered things as "connections". He would have told you your time, date and place of birth, the make of new refrigerator, the row and seat your brother had for the show, and your father's full name and social security number. |
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I could be wrong, and I hope I am, but I suspect we will see little more of Robin. I suspect this is another case of a believer deciding that her perception of skeptics as bitter and nasty people with small intellects has been confirmed.
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"Science is a wall against which we crash all of our ideas. The ones that survive are the ones we keep, but they are still subjected to periodic crash tests." -Foster Zygote "And in science the default is that you're wrong. EVERYONE is wrong. You only can be not wrong if you have evidence to back up your claim." -Dinwar "That is not my circus; those are not my monkeys." -Howard Tayler |
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Imagine it like this: let's say I have a housemate whi is a bit quirky. One day, he comes into my room, very excited, and says: "Quick, BNRT, come outside! The sky has turned green!" Of course, I don't believe him, as everything Iknow about the world tells me that the sky can't just turn green. But I keep an open mind and accompany my housemate outside, just in case he may be right. Naturally, the sky is as blue as ever.
Then a couple of days later, he is there again and very excited about the green sky. Still keeping an open mind, I again follow him outside, just in case he is right this time. But of course, the sky is still not green. Now, if my housemate keeps declaring that the sky is green time after time, I might go outside with him one or two more times. After a while, though, it is clear that the sky never becomes green. Would it be close minded to one day say: "Look, you made this claim so often and were never right. Not a single time. I'm not going to waste any more time going outside with you to check if the sky is green. Next time, get me some evidence, like photo. |
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Knowledge, yes. More evidence that John Edward is a fraud, not so much - most people already know that.
It would be interesting to see a transcript of this reading, rather than rely on your memory. It's always the case that when transcripts are available that it can be seen that the subject is providing information, not the so-called medium. The medium starts with guesses and uses cold reading techniques to refine the guess into something that the subject accepts as a hit. Sometimes the medium uses hot reading: googling people's names, talking with other mediums about repeat customers, even checking through rubbish bins. Those techniques need to be conclusively ruled out before anything supernatural is considered as an explanation. Under what circumstances was this reading held? Was it a private reading, or at a show? Nothing you've posted on your blog rules out cold or hot reading. For example, John Edward apparently told you that your father had a ST sound in his name (funny how these people only come up with sounds, do the spirits forget their own names), which you've counted as a hit, but in point of fact your father had both an S and a T in his name but not a ST sound. If your father's spirit was really in touch with John Edward, wouldn't he have just said "my name is Salvatore"? What JE was doing was trying to cover many names with the "ST sound" and then refining it as soon as you or someone else in the audience showed (even unconsciously) that this could apply to you. I am sorry for the loss of your father. But I urge you not to waste your precious time and money on fake psychics. Your father lives on in your memory, and nobody can take that away. All this talk of refrigerators and theatre tickets is not the memory or the spirit of your father, it's the work of a well-organised, well-resourced conman who will use every trick in the book and then some to get people to keep coming to his shows. |
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People assume that time is a strict progression of cause to effect, but actually, from a non-linear, non-subjective viewpoint - it's more like a big ball of wibbly wobbly... timey wimey... stuff. |
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Being that I know just as much if not more about the tricks fake mediums use the reason you should seriously examine (and you do need to read ALL the comments for the full picture) my experience with John Edward is the fact that I ACTUALLY had a reading with him whereas I'm guessing most here have not. I have the knowledge of what to look for in a fake medium AND all my experiences with mediums(lots... including James Van Praagh) and in my opinion they were all fake. Except for John Edward. You have the knowledge minus the actual personal experience with John Edward which makes me a more qualified judge.
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Then why are people wrong who believe in the mediums that you know are fake?
Are they simply less intelligent than you? Further, if we find someone who actually had a John Edward reading and yet considers him a fraud, will that trump your belief? If not, why not? |
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That actually makes it worse given you're now invested in that reading being true. Each and every time you fail to apply critical thinking to the reading lends more credence to that event.
The fact that these folks make good livings leeching off the memories of passed loved ones makes monikers like "biggest douche in the universe" quite apt. |
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Communicating with those who have crossed over is not the same as talking to someone on your iphone with a crystal clear connection...and that has been explained in more detail in the comment section of my blog...which is why I will respectfully ask you and all on this thread to ACTUALLY read my blog and ALL the comments because many if not all of your points have ALREADY been addressed there. Then perhaps we can discuss and cover some new ground.
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My previous post is the one I would most like answered, but I am also interested to hear your expertise regarding the tricks of psychic frauds, Robin. What studies and experience have rendered you impervious to fake mediums?
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If I am so personally invested and so then cannot use my critical thinking skills properly why then do I believe that ALL the other mediums I've been to are fakes?
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