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Happy Dutch Kinderen
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/europe/6360517.stm
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Laura Vos, a 16-year-old schoolgirl from Amsterdam agrees.
"In this country, it's very free, you can do anything you want," she told the BBC's Newsnight programme. "You can smoke at 16..." --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Life in the Netherlands is so ideal, smokers there don't even get cancer. |
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While I don't dispute the conclusion based on the material criteria (poverty, heath, etc.), I have a couple bones to pick when it comes to the "children's subjective sense of well being." For one thing, if teenagers don't think their parents are too strict, then their parents probably are not strict enough. Is the extent to which parents let their kids do whatever they want supposed to be a measure of the children's well-being? That is patently absurd. They are the child and you are the parent because you know what's good for them better than they do. Being too strict isn't good either, but if your kid talks about how awesome it is that he can do whatever he wants (like smoke), then you have failed as a parent, and your kid is decidedly not better off for it. Come on. There is a happy medium to be found here.
Secondly, how is expecting less of children better for their well being? I can see how expecting far too much can be bad for them, but expecting too little is equally bad, in my opinion. |
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Actually, this article seems to say that the Dutch abdicated their duty to build their children's character and supply them with an education, and prefer to just spoil them rotten and keep them ignorant, since that is (in the short run) easier.
If this article is accurate, and if "liberalism" (whatever exactly that is) is the cause, it proves liberalism is anti-family, or at least anti-children. What bothers me more than the facts themselves is the approving tone of the article. Is it really the case that, in Europe, children's well-being is determined by the extent to which parents cater to their every whim and teachers don't demand anything of them? |
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You fascinate me. Do you actually have any proof at all that Dutch children are spoilt rotten and kept ignorant, as you try claiming the article says so, or are you only senselessly ranting?
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, do you have any proof at all for your assertions, and why do you apparently think that Denmark equals Europe? Or was it only a senseless, bigoted rant of yours?
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No - in terms of education the report puts them at 6 in the league table. (For educational achievement it's slightly higher at 5.)
The countries higher then the Netherlands are Belgium, Canada, Poland, Finland & Sweden. If you are interested the USA is at position 14, that's 8 below the Netherlands. |
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For a British take on the report's findings see: Britain Best Place to be a child!
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If it were all so simple! If only there were evil people somewhere insidiously committing evil deeds, and it were necessary only to separate them from the rest of us and destroy them. But the line dividing good and evil cuts through the heart of every human being. And who is willing to destroy a piece of his own heart? - Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn 1918-2008
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Well as a citizen of the Netherlands, I do admit that some children could use some good old fashion discipline.
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Larsen- Cute map of the world. I admit that most Americans are ignorant of geography and political nuance. The one thing I would correct is the "Mexico" slogan, about smelly people with big hats. For better or worse, America feels the pain of, and is sympathetic toward, the poor Mexican, from both sides of the political aisle here.
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