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Old 20th February 2007, 06:11 PM   #1
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Happy Dutch Kinderen

http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/europe/6360517.stm

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Dutch children have been rated the most fortunate children in Europe. Their parents go out of their way to please them, and teachers expect less of them than some of their European counterparts.

Dutch society is very child-centred
The Netherlands has come top of a league table for child well-being across 21 industrialised countries.

The study by the UN children's organisation, Unicef, looked at relative poverty, educational and health standards, sexual behaviour and the children's relationship with friends and parents.

"The Netherlands has always been a very child-centred society," says Paul Vangeert, professor of developmental psychology at the University of Groningen. "In particular, there is a lot of focus on young children."

He says he is not surprised by the report. "On the one hand you have objective indicators in the report like health, income and education. The Netherlands is a very rich country. On the other hand, and perhaps more importantly, are the subjective indicators, young people's own subjective sense of well-being."
So much for the myth that liberalism is anti-family.
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Laura Vos, a 16-year-old schoolgirl from Amsterdam agrees.

"In this country, it's very free, you can do anything you want," she told the BBC's Newsnight programme. "You can smoke at 16..."
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Life in the Netherlands is so ideal, smokers there don't even get cancer.
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While I don't dispute the conclusion based on the material criteria (poverty, heath, etc.), I have a couple bones to pick when it comes to the "children's subjective sense of well being." For one thing, if teenagers don't think their parents are too strict, then their parents probably are not strict enough. Is the extent to which parents let their kids do whatever they want supposed to be a measure of the children's well-being? That is patently absurd. They are the child and you are the parent because you know what's good for them better than they do. Being too strict isn't good either, but if your kid talks about how awesome it is that he can do whatever he wants (like smoke), then you have failed as a parent, and your kid is decidedly not better off for it. Come on. There is a happy medium to be found here.

Secondly, how is expecting less of children better for their well being? I can see how expecting far too much can be bad for them, but expecting too little is equally bad, in my opinion.
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Interesting discussion of concept of the relative poverty measure usedhere.
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So much for the myth that liberalism is anti-family.
Actually, this article seems to say that the Dutch abdicated their duty to build their children's character and supply them with an education, and prefer to just spoil them rotten and keep them ignorant, since that is (in the short run) easier.

If this article is accurate, and if "liberalism" (whatever exactly that is) is the cause, it proves liberalism is anti-family, or at least anti-children.

What bothers me more than the facts themselves is the approving tone of the article. Is it really the case that, in Europe, children's well-being is determined by the extent to which parents cater to their every whim and teachers don't demand anything of them?

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They are the child and you are the parent because you know what's good for them better than they do.
No, you're the parent because you either had sex with someone and created a child, or else you adopted one. Neither act conveys good parenting skills automatically.
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Actually, this article seems to say that the Dutch abdicated their duty to build their children's character and supply them with an education, and prefer to just spoil them rotten and keep them ignorant, since that is (in the short run) easier.

If this article is accurate, and if "liberalism" (whatever exactly that is) is the cause, it proves liberalism is anti-family, or at least anti-children.

What bothers me more than the facts themselves is the approving tone of the article. Is it really the case that, in Europe, children's well-being is determined by the extent to which parents cater to their every whim and teachers don't demand anything of them?
Read the article:

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The study by the UN children's organisation, Unicef, looked at relative poverty, educational and health standards, sexual behaviour and the children's relationship with friends and parents.
Furthermore, here's a few things you didn't know:

"The Netherlands" != "Europe".

"Less pressure" != "No pressure".
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Actually, this article seems to say that the Dutch abdicated their duty to build their children's character and supply them with an education, and prefer to just spoil them rotten and keep them ignorant, since that is (in the short run) easier.
You fascinate me. Do you actually have any proof at all that Dutch children are spoilt rotten and kept ignorant, as you try claiming the article says so, or are you only senselessly ranting?
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What bothers me more than the facts themselves is the approving tone of the article. Is it really the case that, in Europe, children's well-being is determined by the extent to which parents cater to their every whim and teachers don't demand anything of them?
Tell me, , do you have any proof at all for your assertions, and why do you apparently think that Denmark equals Europe? Or was it only a senseless, bigoted rant of yours?

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Originally Posted by Skeptic View Post
Actually, this article seems to say that the Dutch abdicated their duty to build their children's character and supply them with an education, and prefer to just spoil them rotten and keep them ignorant, since that is (in the short run) easier.

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No - in terms of education the report puts them at 6 in the league table. (For educational achievement it's slightly higher at 5.)

The countries higher then the Netherlands are Belgium, Canada, Poland, Finland & Sweden. If you are interested the USA is at position 14, that's 8 below the Netherlands.
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For a British take on the report's findings see: Britain Best Place to be a child!
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You fascinate me. Do you actually have any proof at all that Dutch children are spoilt rotten and kept ignorant, as you try claiming the article says so, or are you only senselessly ranting?

Tell me, , do you have any proof at all for your assertions, and why do you apparently think that Denmark equals Europe? Or was it only a senseless, bigoted rant of yours?
This will clarify a lot:

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Well as a citizen of the Netherlands, I do admit that some children could use some good old fashion discipline.
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Originally Posted by steverino View Post
Laura Vos, a 16-year-old schoolgirl from Amsterdam agrees.

"In this country, it's very free, you can do anything you want," she told the BBC's Newsnight programme. "You can smoke at 16..."
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Life in the Netherlands is so ideal, smokers there don't even get cancer.
Of course, they are smoking pot not tobacco
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Originally Posted by CFLarsen View Post
Read the article:



Furthermore, here's a few things you didn't know:

"The Netherlands" != "Europe".

"Less pressure" != "No pressure".
Look if there are not enough suicideds over failed tests there is not enough pressure on kids.
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You fascinate me. Do you actually have any proof at all that Dutch children are spoilt rotten and kept ignorant, as you try claiming the article says so, or are you only senselessly ranting?

Tell me, , do you have any proof at all for your assertions, and why do you apparently think that Denmark equals Europe? Or was it only a senseless, bigoted rant of yours?
I reported this post.
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No, you're the parent because you either had sex with someone and created a child, or else you adopted one. Neither act conveys good parenting skills automatically.
Fair enough. You're supposed to know better than your children what's good for them. It's a necessary condition of being a good parent. You are right of course that some parents are bad parents. It doesn't really affect my overall point, though.
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FYI - [reverse]Because I'm too lazy :D[/reverse]

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Larsen- Cute map of the world. I admit that most Americans are ignorant of geography and political nuance. The one thing I would correct is the "Mexico" slogan, about smelly people with big hats. For better or worse, America feels the pain of, and is sympathetic toward, the poor Mexican, from both sides of the political aisle here.
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As usual, Claus gets it wrong. The land marked "Here be something else" is marked on American maps as "Here be kangaroos."

Silly Claus!

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Larsen- Cute map of the world. I admit that most Americans are ignorant of geography and political nuance. The one thing I would correct is the "Mexico" slogan, about smelly people with big hats. For better or worse, America feels the pain of, and is sympathetic toward, the poor Mexican, from both sides of the political aisle here.
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As usual, Claus gets it wrong. The land marked "Here be something else" is marked on American maps as "Here be kangaroos."

Silly Claus!

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Actually, this article seems to say that the Dutch abdicated their duty to build their children's character and supply them with an education, and prefer to just spoil them rotten and keep them ignorant, since that is (in the short run) easier.
The article says nothing of the sort. You're seeing things.
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The article says nothing of the sort. You're seeing things.
Oh, come on, don´t confuse that poor man by suggesting that the world - especially Europe - is not some crude black-and-white sketch out of somebody´s warped imagination.
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I didn't make the drawing. It's been circulating for years.
I was wondering where "Claus's tremendous sense of self-satisfaction" would be on that map, then I realized the map would have to be a lot larger. According to leading scientists, Claus's TSOSS is larger than most galactic clusters.
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I was wondering where "Claus's tremendous sense of self-satisfaction" would be on that map, then I realized the map would have to be a lot larger. According to leading scientists, Claus's TSOSS is larger than most galactic clusters.
Does this TSOSS have enough mass to generate an independent gravitational field, or does it just suck?

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I was wondering where "Claus's tremendous sense of self-satisfaction" would be on that map, then I realized the map would have to be a lot larger. According to leading scientists, Claus's TSOSS is larger than most galactic clusters.
Get a sense of humor.
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Get a sense of humor.
There's a log in your eye.
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I was wondering where "Claus's tremendous sense of self-satisfaction" would be on that map, then I realized the map would have to be a lot larger. According to leading scientists, Claus's TSOSS is larger than most galactic clusters.
It's there. It's the area labelled "Here there be one-trick ponies who can give it but can't take it".

You have to squint to find it though. Big ego...small person.
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